the Bear SG strangely, this was asked of me at work "how come you never write "dear XXXXX"? i answered: the ^#@$ is not dear to me.. he's lucky i never start the damned letter or email "you flamin' retard..."
subarugal SG ok.. i do take it casually but what if that person is your collegues.. Chances i am looking at 'guy out for fun' heh... and as far as i know my lady friend dnt take such 'dear' seriously but happen that i think she is attracted to him.
browniebaobao SG I have a dear here.. i dun anyhow call pple dear la..only my buddy, my dear here and my bf.. and i nv let guys call me dear if he's not my bf. As simple as that lor.
stellazio SG why do you think so much about a freaking 4 letter word??whether its for flirting purposes or the meaningful truth,his actions will speak for it..words like this are just music to the ears..
Camellias4me SG I wldn't read too much into it. Many of them r out for fun. My colleague 'dear' me only in his sms-es too.
subarugal SG why dont you tell her ? i guess she is just being plain curious... or maybe just another challenge in romances.. I have came across someone told me before, initial stage of romances consist of endless challenges, thrill and fishing... Depending whose endurances last ?? Romances without the thrill and chasing is just a cup of plain water ? Dnt ask me.. coz i am still learning the arts of courtship.. I guess i am a bad student afterall. Too lazy to think too much..