even if its 20kg per side, its already very good for someone
new.
i have pathetic strength when i started out. when i 1st lift the
barbell up while doing bench press, my hands were already trembling
very badly. this goes to show how weak i am..i then slowly add
2.5kg, 5kg, 7.5kg, 10kg, 12.5kg, 15kg , 17.5kg plates per
side
even now i m still doing 20kg per side for 8-10 reps.
IMO dont compare how heavy u can bench with others. I think this
depends on yr overall build n strength ba. Just do wad u can do
with proper form
I have seen those freakly fat guys doing very heavy bench but for
wad? their too fat!!! can they do pullups and dips? I have seen
fit,lean and muscular guys who bench much lighter than those fat
guys but they can do pullups n dips with amazing form