wah sai.. hmm.. can give one solid example?
i think youyayu has a point in that if some things need to be
done, just say it out.. sometimes, not the guy see and dunwan do..
but just that he missed it altogether..
but the tone and voice part, i think someone better knock some
sense into him.. if at 26yrs old one stil does not know how to
respect their own parents and find them naggy, self-reflection is
really short in supply..
my mother already told him that if he wants to be certified
accountant, he just have to finish his studies first then he can
get higher pay and at least have some certification.
but he refuse and he blame my mum for nagging at him all the
time. actually i agree with my mum because my brother only have a
levels. so having a certification is also not a bad idea. but my
brother just want to go on his way then wrk in a accounting firm
and come home keep complaining how tough it is, there is so many
things that he have not learn, then my mum just sort of nag him
asking him to go n study for the certification then he raise his
voice at my mum again. but my brother still insist on his way.
i think sooner or later he have to take that certifcation, he
have to take one because he already have the experience le ma but
then he is not certified after all.
actually my brother do not have any wrong. he make his own
decision. just do not like him keep complaining abt this and that
then always raise his voice at my mum
frankly speaking, i also cannot tahan my mum's nagging but over
the years, i just let her yank finished and be sensitive to get out
of her way, and try not to make her more angry. but my brother just
dun care i think.