I'm currently single and have no major issue with it. I try
to be happy with myself, but I don't wish to be like this for
the rest of my life. It's just one more phase in my
journey and I enjoy it while it lasts, but I do hope to
share my life with someone else in the future. I got everything but
nobody to share it with... it becomes pretty meaningless. All the
success, money and travels for what... at the end of the day I
come back to an empty house. I do feel lonely sometimes.. and then
I just wander around... get lost and find my way back. Moving
through life accumulating success aimlessly is not what I
want. I think I've had enough time to reflect on what matters to
me and I want to be part of something larger than
myself. I feel life is more enjoyable when it's shared... in
the past I had some friends who were also single, but little by
little they all got married and started their own families. Some of
them got divorced, but now they got their kids. All of
them are too busy with their lives and I almost never see
them. I kind of feel left out... but I do agree that being single
is better than being in a relationship with the wrong person. I was
there and managed to get out... but it was so painful and sad. I'd
rather have my life for myself than end up trapped in a miseable
marriage. Fortunately I also know some married couples that have
been living in bliss for decades and that's what gives me hope. I
know true love does exist and can last for a lifetime and
perhaps, beyond.
you can never predict how yr marriage will work out.
if you never meet a bad 1 be4, how do you know who is a good 1
??
likewise you encounter some bastard then you will know who is
good to you.
if not you will always be a baby in yr own world.
