This is a useful thread i feel.
But i have to say, thinkings change over time.
When i was young, from teens to early 20s, i want to concentrate
on my studies so no gf to distract me.
In my mid 20s to 30 yrs old, with the low income, i have no
confident to really setting up a family. The marriage divorce
situation does not help as well, i was thinking to staying single
all my life.
One day in my 31st yr, i suddenly realized i had missed out a
lot of things and started chasing after girls. Wanting to marry by
35yrs old, have kids to go home to and someone by my side when i
get old.
Now i am 34 yrs old ‘uncle’. after a few failed
relationshipship, i am thinking in 1 yrs time, if i cannot meet my
destine other, what should i do? Stay single and work for more
money forever?
Will my thinking change in the future? You bet! But nobody can
gaurantee the future. I will just have to do my best every step of
the way.
