So bored!

xIcEx SG

its really stressful and bored! haiss...can anyone advice mi what should i do???

I'm turning 23 this year ..birthday is coming...on 26nov...wanna think of the celebrations..but now i think can forget abt it...due to money problem...i'm working interior film..i 'm taking my driving license meanwhile i wanna study MDIS to get Diploma cert. but bad thing is my family dun support mi...they say when i was young in sec..why dun study hard...after all went to ite..now suddenly want study...stop lying..wanna stay outside fooling around just say...

i was thinking inside my heart..i really wanna get a diploma cert. but i think no point talking to them...beside that issues...i got another problem, which is money issues...every month i need to give house allowence..around $500....but i'm only earning 1 k per month...and i borrow from my grandma to survived for each month...now all thanks to my dad...he told my grandma not to lend mi anymore...

i really hate my dad...he is the one who wan mi take driving license which did't give mi a single cents for theory...2ndly he is the one who told mi whatever problem tell them. family doors are always open for u...

wdf is this??? i really duno what to do..i am really lost...why am i so pathetic?....i hope someone may advise mi what to do?

i want to have driving license & diploma cert..and hopefully i can have a good gf

FireIce SG

ok.. good luck in life.

xIcEx SG

feeled pressured ><"

popikachu SG

Hiee wanna meet pika we go outing together ^^

Lokey SG

its really stressful and bored! haiss...can anyone advice mi what should i do???

wdf is this??? i really duno what to do..i am really lost...why am i so pathetic?....i hope someone may advise mi what to do?

i want to have driving license & diploma cert..and hopefully i can have a good gf

1. you have changed so now you are interested in studying and that is very normal. try to look for a "useful" diploma that is acredited by MOE.

2. you salary of 1k is really too low. you should look for a better job. Pls.. my gangster friend working at drink stall already can get $1.8K at 16 years old.

3. you dont intend to become a driver driving a van for delivery than dont bother to take the driving license because it will cost you in total at least 1K plus and it will drag at least half a year

4. work 1 K give 500 how can that be enough to survive? stop give household money save it for dipolma

5. you can become a nurse, there is a scholarship for it. go to WDA and see if there is any sponsored course.

6. you are stressed because of $$$ (so is I ) so find a better job, do something that can earn. Or you can try CDC.

popikachu SG

its really stressful and bored! haiss...can anyone advice mi what should i do???

wdf is this??? i really duno what to do..i am really lost...why am i so pathetic?....i hope someone may advise mi what to do?

i want to have driving license & diploma cert..and hopefully i can have a good gf

Well, I support what your family says though...

And, your dad mean it when he says family doors are open for you... ^^

Ahbel emo SG

me to turning 19 in 3 days... also now headach about future.. now goin to take prv o level.. because mostly n level they don realii accept in thoes office line.. heeeee. im now apply for childcare certificate and see how things go

popikachu SG

Good luck to you! Haha

^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~ SG

SC?

an chua dun post at AA???

Lokey SG

I suggest you go to CDC can get a skill. There are many non-grad jobs that required to be skilled in field, such as security, chef ... and the pay is quite well.

Childcareline is not too bad also.

TrueHeart SG

its really stressful and bored! haiss...can anyone advice mi what should i do???

wdf is this??? i really duno what to do..i am really lost...why am i so pathetic?....i hope someone may advise mi what to do?

i want to have driving license & diploma cert..and hopefully i can have a good gf

Hi xIcEx,

Please do not call yourself pathetic, it is a good thing that you are aiming high. Have you considered getting a Higher Nitec, and enter a local polytechnic? It will be a longer route, but your diploma will be more recognised in this case.

Unfortunately, in your current situation, you will have to choose to either forgo your driving license, your dream of getting a diploma, or your job. It is not impossible, but it will be very difficult to juggle all three of them simultaneously.

I have absolutely no right to ask you to stop giving your family a household allowance, but you may wish to consider lowering the amount which you are giving right now.

Cheers.

Rooney9 SG

Hi TS

since your family dun believe you, rely on your efforts instead. go take up a part time job on weekends where you can earn a little. as for studying, better study at SIM than MDIS or other private schools. if you dun believe me, wait till you are a student there, then you know what I am talking about. how about wait till you have saved a few thousand dollars then go study part time at SIM? as for a gf, you do not need one now. you should concentrate on establishing your career first before thinking of having a gf.

cheers.

EchoStretch SG

Hi, your life's probably at its most 'down' period. I understand how you feel. Just stress everyday, maybe even thoughts of suicide (I hope not so jia lat).

Firstly on $$$ problems, go read up books. I recommend 'Rich dad, Poor dad' by Robert Kiyosaki(I HIGHLY DEEPLY RECOMMEND THIS). Its an old book but it will definitely help you in getting rich, as well as giving you the motivation to not give up on life just because your academic studies suck. I suggest getting a government-paid, no need qualifications job. e.g SAF signed-on officer, policeman. Though not well paid, these jobs give you stable income of around 2k per month, http://www.spf.gov.sg/career/po_salary.htm. What's more, it doesn't require much brain power when you're merely holding a low rank, so its easy in a way. Entry requirements for SPF : http://www.spf.gov.sg/career/po_entry.htm

And also, no matter what happens, don't blame anything or anybody else. Whatever happens in your life is you fault and responsibility. Our minds will constantly and unconsciously create excuses for yourself. I know its hard and you have no choice but to listen to your dad, but yeah. Find motivation in your life, perhaps a get a gf, but dont be despo, it will f*** you up even more.

Good luck in your life and career dude. :D

xIcEx SG

thanks everyone who gib mi advice..thank u all..anyway i just hope everything will be fine...anyone got parttime job can hire? especially on sunday? coz i'm working 5&half days in interior design...only sunday never work..i hope to work to earn more extra money...

besides that i wish to know more friends in here...btw how old are u guys??? 2more weeks to my birthday xD...

thanks u guys once again!

EchoStretch SG

I'm 14 only haha. Happy birthday in advance!

My birthday 3 months ago over.

popikachu SG

Hi, your life's probably at its most 'down' period. I understand how you feel. Just stress everyday, maybe even thoughts of suicide (I hope not so jia lat).

Good luck in your life and career dude. :D

Rich dad poor dad NICE BOOK!

TrueHeart SG

besides that i wish to know more friends in here...btw how old are u guys??? 2more weeks to my birthday xD...

thanks u guys once again!

Hi xIcEx,

Perhaps you will like to take a look in the Jobs and Employments forum and post a thread over there.

Cheers.

jianrong168 SG

Persevere

bubu<3 SG

Hi xIcEx,

jiayou!

agree tt u shd jus get a better pay job. anyway, wat kind of job u working? 20/f here... =)

soemt SG

Dear xIcEx,

I'm sure if you put your mind to it that you'll find you can achieve almost anything. You seem have the advantage of youth yet. Sharpen your mind, develop old and new skills!

What interests you by the way? I'm 31 and still learning many new things. Afriend quoted James Dean recently in giving advice to me: "Live like you only have today. Dream like you'll live forever"

Some regular exercise will do some good too!.)