These are my opinions. Anyway, im a guy.
I want a man who is not very handsome, but must be
lookable.
Pleasant looking. no B.O, no dirty fingernails, looks neat, has at
least a decent sense of fashion, no unibrows(URGH!).
I want a man who is chivalrous (or gentlemanly) but
chauvinistic enough at the same time.
Being gentlemanly is being slightly chauvinistic, just a tinge of
it. like a drop or two.
I want a man who is not very successful in his career, but
must have amass enough success in his work to maintain his
position.
Simply, a man with a stable job. enough success in his work to
ensure that he is needed and not in danger of being fired at
anytime.
I want a man who is not rich, but financially stable enough
to maintain my lifestyle.
As for this, depends on the girl's lifestyle. If shes the type
where shes thrifty, then the average drone can support.
I want a man who has time for me but successful in his
career.
Capable of time management and future
planning.
I want a man who is good in bed but not have sex very
often.
A man who is able to control his desires?
Anyway, i think women want a man who can let them satisfy their
deepest darkest fantasies in the bedroom, and still is in control
when out.
I want a man who knows how to treat a woman good but knows
how to tease her to love him at the same time.
A man
who is capable of pampering his girl with his love, and still is
independent enough to draw back and let her chase him.
I want a man who loves his parents...but must love me just
as much.
Simply, a loving person. Or rather a person
capable of loving on two fronts. Love for your parents and love for
your girl is simply two different subjects and they can be just as
much as each other.
I want a man who is athletic, has a great body...but not
crazy about sports.
Plays sports, maybe like every thursday night a sports activity but
not till the point of crazy fandom over the sports itself.
I want a man who takes good care of me and gives me the
sense of security, but must give me space to lead a independent
life.
Confident of living his own life. Confident in his girl being able
to hold her in the world and if she cant, to look to him for help.
And he MUST be able to listen to her, understand what she's NOT
saying.
If this is too lenghty to read, just know that I'm bored.
"Pleasant looking. no B.O, no dirty fingernails, looks neat,
has at least a decent sense of fashion, no
unibrows(URGH!)."
I think most guys from SG fulfill this requirement. Correct me
if I'm wrong. We are not in Rwanda right?
"Being gentlemanly is being slightly chauvinistic, just a
tinge of it. like a drop or two."
I think most of the time guys try to be like that, but then
there are always posuers. I got to hear a story about one recently
that was very much considered a "man who got no pride". Basically
he asked for all the money he spent on his ex back after a breakup.
He even force the lady to go to the atm to withdraw every bit of
cash she had and left her penniless on the street. Last year, I was
told by the same lady that he is a fine young gentleman. So to the
guys out there who got no pride, my word to you is, "Save the act
for the nymphos who just care if you have a big dick." That is
definitely no male chivarly.
"Simply, a man with a stable job. enough success in his work
to ensure that he is needed and not in danger of being fired at
anytime."
Singapore has one of the lowest rates of unemployment in asia. I
tend to believe that if you are willing to work in SG, you cannot
go jobless. So why are the ladies still looking?
"As for this, depends on the girl's lifestyle. If shes the
type where shes thrifty, then the average drone can
support."
I'm an average drone, so where are the thrifty ladies?
"Capable of time management and future planning."
Again, easier said than done.
"A man who is able to control his desires? Anyway, i think
women want a man who can let them satisfy their deepest darkest
fantasies in the bedroom, and still is in control when
out."
I think I said it before, skills comes with practice. That does
not mean that you are a over zealous ape with raging hormones when
you are out of the bedroom. Tell me who is? I'll alert the zoo.
"A man who is capable of pampering his girl with his love,
and still is independent enough to draw back and let her chase
him."
Mind games? ok, maybe this point is a bit rusty. But In my point
of view, you dun treat your woman good when you play mind games
with her.
"Simply, a loving person. Or rather a person capable of loving
on two fronts. Love for your parents and love for your girl is
simply two different subjects and they can be just as much as each
other."
Are you or have you been married? You would wish women would
understand what you just said about "two different subjects". They
would not ask you funny questions then.
"Plays sports, maybe like every thursday night a sports
activity but not till the point of crazy fandom over the sports
itself."
I dun know. Can you get a great bod with just thursday night?
Let me know the routine, the last time I had a great bod, I was
burning 12 hours in the gym weekly.
"Confident of living his own life. Confident in his girl
being able to hold her in the world and if she cant, to look to him
for help. And he MUST be able to listen to her, understand what
she's NOT saying."
That's security you are talking about. But the woman actually
wants to be independant and live her own life here, without you! So
what are you doing in the picture?
