Thanks lot for your advice! i noe i sldn't hurt another person so i
didn't do that. is juz a selfish thought at tat time to heal my
wound. he is nice, i dun wan to hurt him. =) i noe i shouldn't
wait, but i juz feel abit wasted that we spent so long together and
now we hav to part... i feel like waiting to give each of us
another chance. after knowing how he i senjoying himself with
another gal i felt kinda dumb to wait for sth that nv happen(like
my friend said) it juz hurts even more that i feel like giving up.
shall i still wait? like you said if he loves mi he would hav
return but he hasn't, maybe he don't love mi. Is time to give up?
btw cuz i was with him for more than 3 yrs that why the pain =( i
did talk to a few of my close friends and even mother. Actualli, i
feel,i am getting more emotional also cuz of 1 of my besties who
juz broke up with bf too...
that's good then, well there are times to let go. Since you
guys have been together for more than 3 years, i know its hard
to let go and forget about it. Don't drown your sorrows into
alcohol or drugs, there won't help. The best thing is try new
stuff in life, you can probably talk to your mum about it or
whoever you get along well in the family. I normally talk to my mum
about my love life issues. I know how it feels when your see
your ex lover with someone else, when we broke
up August last year, she went to find a guy to
sleep with just 3 days after we ended our relationship. When I
heard this, I felt so heart broken that I went on a
drinking spree, got drunk almost every night.
Well I think it's time to give up on him, even if you
wait he won't come back. If your ex bf does come back to you,
it will be either because he got cheated or played by that girl.
And if he does, just say no.
Firstly why wait? Since you know they are plenty of guys
out there you can choose, why wait for your ex bf to return? Right
now, you should be enjoying life. Make changes to your life, try to
find something you haven't done before, make new friends and change
your placement of your room. If you do think about your ex bf
or miss him, go for a walk outside or play sports or do excercises
to keep your mind busy.
For example, its like you want to quit smoking
but you can't hard because there is something there that makes you
want to smoke probably peer groups. Then take the quit
smoking process as your ex bf, the more you think
about your ex bf the more you want him back. It's just like the
more you think about smoking, the more you want to smoke.