i am still wounded… how long does it takes to recover from a
break up? my ex cheated on mi but i still love him. i guess love is
blind, when you love someone, you juz wanna be with him no matter
wad. i juz can’t let go after parting for a few months. my tears
are still running like tape water whenever i see how happy they
are, when i think back of wad he used to say to me, how he love mi,
how he lied… still hoping for his return, hoping to see him, hoping
to be loved by him again… nth seems to help, i try to fall in love
with sumone but i juz can’t love him, i am scared the same thing
happen. I feel happy with another guy, he tells mi he likes mi, but
i dun feel for him…
i am confuse, shall i continue to wait for my ex to turn back.
(which might not happen or takes a long long time)or shall i be
with the other guy and try to develop feeling for him? or maybe
there are other things that could help mi feel better?
to add on, cuz he is my 1st bf and we hav been tgh for a few
years… =( help mi out pls… tell mi wad i sld do… tell mi pros of
being single! thanks!
i tried hanging out with my friends, it’s realli fun and makes
mi 4get about him during the moment but when i am alone i start
feeling v emotional again… HELP!
Like I've always said. The past is past and should serve no more
than a lesson - the past doesn't die just like that, it's something
we carry along with us. We only do not fight lost causes.
Take the time you need to properly mourn for the death of a
relationship, it's very natural and we're only humans. But also
realize, the time awaits for no man - while you're holding on
tightly to the past, you're losing the present.
We can tell you a hundred reasons, but at the end of the day
it's still your fight. I'd encourage you to start going out and
work on your social life again. The end of a relationship is not an
end of your life.
Start to look forward to the future, girl. And best of luck.