Pop comes the baby ? LOL !!!
If only it is that simple.
In case you missed biology class... it takes a MAN an a WOMAN to
have a baby. THE BABY HAS A FATHER !!!
Now.. I would totally agree with you if making a baby only
require a woman to will it. No man needed.
Unfortunately, thats not the case...
If the father of the baby actually stepped up and marry that
mother.. they would have a CORE unit. Baby before or after.. is
irrelevant. It's a piece of paper, you sign your name on the
dotted line.
The problem here is... the IRRESPONSIBLE man... impregnant that
woman... and decide to ABANDON her.... is that her fault ?Takes two
to clap remember ?
It is NO different from a man divorcing a wife and left the
children with her... the only difference is..she cannot shove the
kids back inside her womb and decide if she wants to keep them
there or kill them.
While a pregnant single mother have to make a decision between
KILLING her child in-vitro or giving him/her LIFE "pop them out" .
The man.. simply .. take off.,, pretend nothing happend.. if she
decides to keep that baby... she takes FULL responsibility and then
more. That's the sick culture we have now.
I think it's about time these irresponsible men take
responsibility. If a man impregnate a woman.. he is
automatically the LEGAL Husband and should be
treated like one in govt eyes. The mother will become legally a
married woman.
If a man get a woman pregnant... that's their marriage
certificate. If either of them do not want to continue the
marriage.. they file for divorce later. And the mother becomes
legally a divorced woman.
So marital status is established upon conception or DNA
paternity confirmation.
So if a man don';t want to be a husband.. he shouldn't shoot
sperm inside a vagina. It's THAT simple.
which is why I am very supportive of punishing people by law
should they try stuns like these. as stated earlier. I'm
against people abanddoning their own offsprings.
you keep bringing this up like for? to show that you're crazy?
can't read? I'm the govt and you want to vent your anger on me?
any logical explainations?
and yes if you still don't know by now, marriage in singapore
means you are legally registered.
if someone makes you pregnant, that makes him a father and you a
mother of that particular child should you choose to give birth to
him/her.
not married.
Unmarried couples, like you said, it takes two hands to clap, if
the girl sees that the guy isn't using protection and decides she's
not using any either. what? hang the guy?
both side are irresponsible.
the sick culture we have actually hurts men
more, but if you don't do anything legally the men gets off. simple
as that.
how about the guys who get married, caught the wives red handed
in bed with someone else, or when the babies came out they look
really different, as in different col skin from the parents. then
have to pay alimony. why? because the judges say, sorry lah no
choice cos law says so.
if you're unmarried and didn't use protection, hard luck. but
you can still claim child care IF you have decided to let the child
come into this world.
if married you are legally allowed to claim alimony AND
childcare.
IF you farking decided to do it alone. the fark do you want to
claim? you stepped into a hole totally planned, and let society pay
the bill?
"So
if a man don';t want to be a husband.. he shouldn't shoot sperm
inside a vagina. It's THAT simple."
I ..... after reading this, think you have no idea how many
women in singapore don't want to become wives yet want to have men
shoot sperm inside.