"our culture lol...... if guys are more attractive,
desirable..... usually do not end up being family friendly.
unless by that you mean having more than one family?"
The root cause of such culture.. is related to your demand and
supply theory.
It is simply because there isn't enough attractive, desirable
and family friendly males around , that's why a male who is such is
able to be lofty.
Now , if the supply of attractive, desirable and family friendly
males... becomes the majority.... the ratio of women wanting to
marry such men will be more balanced.
And if such a supply of men were to be avaliable, I doubt
they'll marry local women.
your ideal men seem more like what I can find in female soft
core fiction. "the alpha male conquered by the female protagonist
through true love"
Again I must state, should a man become attractive and
desirable, the last thing he would do is to start a family.
it's more likely he'll contribute to the growing numbers of single
mothers.
at last count, women already outnumber men. and men far
outstrips women in numbers when it comes to marrying
foreigners.
unless women are so desirable here that men have no choice but
to helplessly turn themselves into soft core porn novel versions
just to get one; where supply and demand are concerned.
Age percentage male female 0–14 years 15.6% 362,329
337,964 15–64 years 76.1% 1,666,709 1,750,736 65 years
and over 8.3% 165,823 208,589
I'll say with less males and more males marrying
foreigners. women here might have to seriously consider
foreigners as well.
no one will fall for the "become attractive and desirable"
thingy only to marry someone home to argue with