Agree. There is definitely a positive meaning to anger. But if this
self protection mechanism is going to affect others, then we need
to find a proper channel to release it, or apply CBT.
i think you are talking about the overall tolerance of the society,
let's say the society is not tolerate at all, all the people cannot
release the anger, become bad, because when we talking about the
tolerance about the society, i am not talking about other people, i
am talking about very single person,everyone is in the society, so
to solve this problem, either to increase the tolerance level of
society, or finding the problem in yourself, but i think it's not a
good idea, to control it, you should always find ways to release
it, when some other people cannot tolerate you, maybe you just be
yourself, don't mind what they say, and if the whole society cannot
tolerate you, it's your problem, but that's not the case, most of
time, you only expose to several person, maybe they cannot tolerate
you when you lose temper, but you yourself, should know it's your
problem or their problem, everyone cannot calm or happy through
all, so when you are upset, just let it be, if it happen to be that
your anger burn someone else, i think just forget it, or make some
compensation for the poor guy, don't live up to the expectation of
others,
