Me and my bf didn't engage officially. His parents and mine got
together and talked about our wedding for next year. So my finger
no engagement ring. To me it's not important and the engagement
procession isn't relevant to us both. But he already bought our
wedding rings.
Our parents has already picked a date for our ROM for next
year where we will exchange our vows and rings. A week before our
ROM we will go for our photo shoot. After two months of our ROM we
will hold our traditional ceremony. Wedding dinner will be on the
same day of the traditional ceremony. Then two days later we fly
off for our honeymoon. Very fast arrangement and simple. Don't want
to separate traditional ceremony one day and then wedding
dinner another day. Very 'ma fan'. If both can have our ways, we
would love to photoshoot, ROM, tea ceremoney and wedding dinner all
in one day but we know it's impossible since our parents want to do
things properly as they say