Yah lah, but lets be realistic lor.
There are many engagement that gets called off. Some few days
before ROM. My friend was one , they argue at ROM and broke off
that day.
Then mine didn't materialize also lah.
In fact, a lot of couples only really start to think about the life
time commitment after the engagement.
So, as a girl, ofcors we want nice engagement rings lah.
But, like my case, even when I offer to return the engagement ring,
he says also meaningless, because he wouldn't be giving it to
another girl later.
I told him to sell it off and get something nice for himself, he
also says the most he can get back is half of the value it was
retailed.
So you see, next time, I'd rather my man get me a simple Engagement
ring, then I go choose a nice wedding band.