uhmm what is it harsh bout huggin a girl? harsh? you mean act
too fast or somethin?
No offence but 1 of the stupidest thing is you go ask for
permission before you kiss or hug a person.
For Example, you ask
"Can i kiss you?"
"Can i hug you?"
"Can i have sex with you?"
Then you wait for reply.
For Example, she replied
"Yes, you may kiss me."
"Yes, you may hug me."
"Yes, you may have sex with me."
Isnt this weird!!?? or awkward
Totally! 
If you want to kiss or hug, just do it.. when you 2 go shoppin,
just hold her hand and walk normally.
and you dont do such thing like "Honey, i promise that i will hug
you tomorrow"
or
"Honey, i promise i will kiss you on your left cheek on Mid-Autumn
Festival at Singapore Chinese Garden under the twelveth tree
(countin from the exit) @ around 7:15:12 pm" 