TS - congrats -- not for going out with the girl, but for your
attitude! u seem very mature for your age,
optimistc, yet practical. and you're right - 14 is young...which
means you have many many years ahead of you.
you'll have PLENTY of time to get a gf and seriously chase girls
later on....trust me (personal expereince lah! haha). in the
meantime enjoy your friendships with both guys AND girls, and have
a fun time while in your teens.
if u really, really cannot help it, and MUST get into a serious
relationship while still a teenager, keep in mind that EVERY
relationship MUST break up, unless it ends in marriage. It's a
simple truism: there are only two options for any relationship - either you
eventually (a) marry, or (b) break up.
So take it easy and have fun (clean fun, lah - haha). Use your teen
years effectively -- learn how to play the guitar, speak foreign
languages, etc., in other words pick up some "skills" that will be
useful later when you seriously look for a gf.
hehe...i wish i had someone give me this advice when i was 14.
