Okay, first and foremost, when people were asked what do they
look for in a mate... the answer would be - well, i want him/her to
be kind, understanding, considerate, humorous... etc... loves
sports, quiet, or talkative enough to make me feel
occupied...etc... wad-ever it is, these are what WE call =
PERSONALITY TRAITS. But personality traits are just the icing of a
cake. When I say CHARACTER, what I mean is that character is how a
person treats himself/herself, his/her partner and later his/her
children. Also, how he/she treats others. Now I wouldn't stress
further about character because I believe it's up to one person to
define what it is.
Another thing is that, when I mean EMOTIONAL OPENESS -- I'm trying
to say that = A partner should be able to FEEL, not like a tin
robot! But like a human! That means, a partner should be able to
express how he/she feels to the significant other. To also be able
to say how much he/she loves that person. ABILITY TO SHARE
FEELINGS. That is one thing frequently missed out during
communication in love. Secondly, EMOTIONAL GENEROSITY - sounds chim
but it's not the way u think. It means loving your partner
unconditionally. Not being stingy in love and to be able to SHOW
his/her love. This is because Emotional Generosity provides the KEY
access to a person's soul.
