Ryan99 SG The reason why I post messages on this forum is seek first to understand. Because I gave my all in a relationship, it failed. Somewhere along the way, something went terribly wrong and a relationship just failed like that when initially its just so sweet.. I just frustrated why time and time again it happens.. thats why I will strive to understand more about women and improve more on myself so as to have a successful relationship the next time round...
elindra SG I know of someone who expects a diamond for every occassion but she is not Singaporean though. For me its (not in order of importance) Able to connect Intelligent - Hold a conversation intelligently (the brain is very sexy) Independent Emotionally stable (this includes good anger management) Caring Understanding Considerate (not only to me but others as well) Patient
foxwalk SG i agree with you that the brain is a very sexy organ. you don't ever see it, yet you can get turned on by it.
elindra SG Depends on the person But to me, I prefer a taller guy because I'm already so short!!!! I can't imagine it if a guy is shorter then I am!
av98m SG Girls also want guys who are able to lick their own eyebrows with their tongues (use your imagination)
IceTea SG I think they a guy who is : decisive respect her does not cheat one her able to give some private space financially stable ok educational level taller physical height i think that's all...... if not you ppl can add.
foxwalk SG my bf's friend is popular with girls here though he's short (like oh and i forgot to add.. all the girls that are with him are taller than him.
choco B SG You seem like such a nice guy. I hope 2005 brings a new love into your life Things I look out for in a guy are: Chemistry. This is hard to define.... a mix of physical and mental attraction, humour & a personality you can connect with Trustworthiness... cos I don't trust people easily, and I can't stand people who don't keep to their word Someone essentially good. Not a saint! But has some bearings on right and wrong, some morals (even if shaky you still need some to start with hahaha )... someone who treasures his friends and family. I would also like someone affectionate and generous.
Rhonda SG Hmm... I guess I'm looking for chemistry, like chocoB. Also, for good company. He must be intelligent enough to present his unique opinions in subjects we discuss. A smart man is a huge turn-on! I'd also prefer someone who has decent moral values. He doesn't have to be conservative and rigid but he must uphold a certain standard and be a gentleman in the way he treats me. Also, he must have his life in order and not be a 'messed up' person (and I'm not referring to messy rooms and such). Someone who's expressive and who doesn't hesitate to remind me constantly of how much he loves me, because I will do the same. And someone who isn't averse to PDA (Public Displays of Affection) although I would limit it to a quick hug or a quick peck, not those gruesome and indecent 'make out shows' that you get to watch these days, bleah! He must be faithful and loyal. I have zero tolerance for men who cannot remain devoted. Roving eyes is a definite turn-off.
spaded SG sweeping statement. how lovely. Everyone is unique in their own ways. What may seem suitable for you may not be suitable for others. Perfection does not exist and never will. Compromise does. You don't love someone to change him or her. You fell for who he/she is. If you only start nip-picking his/her faults after getting into a r/s, the chances are you don't love him/her that much in the first place. Prolly infatuated I say.
Ryan99 SG hmmm... it's actually not hard to achieve the things that you gals wan.. haha.. I could have easily done the things mentioned above But seriously, could it be that all along I think too much already, thinking that gals want a lot from their boyfriends when in fact they are only looking for simplicity, just like me???
Rhonda SG Ryan, not all girls are after the same things. There are the nice ones and there are the gold-diggers. The trick is to learn how to sieve out the gems from the stones. Also, remember that sometimes, gems in their raw form can be unattractive but take time to scrub out the muck and you'll see the shine and brilliance within. Good luck in your search!
