How would u discipline ur kids when u become parent?

BusSpeeder SG

caning = bad idea. what if when we grow up, we cane our kids, they cane us, as parents? its worse.

gobez14 SG

against corporal punishment

BusSpeeder SG

wah you also feel that you are in the wrong too? or just to make it obvious so your parents won't cane you?

BusSpeeder SG

never whack thm, because they might even whack us or because of we whacking them, which is violent, they start creating offences

sermodabian SG

Indiscriminate caning and physical punishment is no good. I’ve seen some moms yelling and pinching/slapping their kids away in public (just to make them cry) and I thought thats just pretty sad. i grew up with the cane and i thought its a very bad way of disciplining kids.

spadeTwo SG

i grew up with the cane i think the best way to let a kid be discipline is to be left alone with a timetable. Cool
provided you are not that super poor family type, that type if you don't discipline your kid.. will be very cham...
sometimes.. its the genes Laughing

Deino SG

after a certain age dun start to wack….juz advice….if they dun they ground them…you can never teach someone, rather you help it find it within himself…that is if they’re teens

Herzog_Zwei SG

Lobotomy?

yihao93 SG

i believe in stepping in when it is needed only,... Mr. Green
as in
u wan come home late,
ok, can, on, but muz tell 1st
u wan paly com?
can,
studies
muz be to my staandards
* either b or a)
if canot meet
sry
no com,
goin out,
depends
but i would need to keep a close watch as it mught go too deep

de_middle SG

honestly, wanna cane also heart pain Sad really dunno how, when that time comes then see how Very Happy

FireAndHell SG

I have 2 kids in the threshold of being teens. I have never used the cane, nor have I ever use my hands to hit them.

Whenever they do wrong, I gave them a lecture on the pros vs cons of what they have done and let them know the consquences of their actions, citing examples of similar actions and its' consequences that were publised in the local papers/news.

I than asked of their opinion, what they felt about their actions and whether they find it is ok or wrong about it and why. We have a discussion to iron out the problem and misunderstanding.

I can say my kids have learnt to understand that bad actions do not bear fruit for them in their future. Very Happy

jondizzle foshizzle SG

Now THAT'S the way to discipline your kids. Well done, I applaud your good parenting.

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