Originally posted by allentyb:
[b]first you get the women
how to manipulate women and get your way. This is what men try to
do on a regular basis but with calamitous results. The hold they
have on their significant others is so temporary, so weak and so
deceptive, that before they even sense it, their woman has them by
the balls again.
Is it amoral, as the political reality of Machiavelli was, to
dispense this advice? Is it wrong? How can a man and woman foster a
lifetime commitment on trust and respect when one is out to
manipulate the other for personal gain and
satisfaction? Simple. She must never know your
intentions or methods to influence her mind.
With wily deceit, you must approach this technique
like a martial art: discipline, prudence and stealth are your
friends. But whereas in practice martial arts seek to exploit the
physical leverage of an opponent to gain the advantage, female mind
manipulation in the context of a relationship must
use mental leverage to do the same.
Despite the cloak of Machiavellian wisdom, female mind manipulation
borrows from the restraint of Confucius, the quiet ruthless
practices of Sun Tzu and the meditation of Zen. If a tree falls in
the forest and nobody is there, does it make a sound? If you bend
your woman to your will and she is oblivious to the fact, did you
even manipulate her mind in the first place? Think about it.
Do you have to be a Jedi Knight of the
subconscious to pull this off? Does it have to be this complex?
Well to be honest with you, yes. Women are intricate creatures and,
unless vulnerable because of innate insecurity, trauma or low
intelligence, resist deception with maddening ease.
They question our judgment. They question our expertise. They
question our intelligence. They question our taste. It
drives us absolutely crazy. In our quest to carve a better
life, all we want is an impression of obedience
and submission to our masculine dominance.
In order to exert influence and win infinite support from
your woman, you need to hold a position of worth in life.
You have to stand for something significant. You have to command
reverence in your respective field. People should respect your
dignity and moral resilience. Why? Simple. Women gravitate toward
men of strong character and go to bat for them
time and time again. You can be a university professor, a
neurosurgeon or a janitor. It matters not. Just be the man who
people turn to for advice, counsel and wisdom.
Bend like a reed
Stop me if you know this one:
If a stronger enemy assails you,
better bend like the reed by the stream.
Do not rear like an angry snake
if unremitting prosperity is what you seek.
Following the lowly manner of the reed
a man gains great prosperity in time.
Adopting the overbearing manner of the snake,
he is simply courting death.
*Excerpt from Pancatantra
Your woman may not be a "stronger enemy" or even an enemy
at all. There are times however, when she may prove to be
a stubborn and formidable adversary. Apply the advice above in
order to scuttle convention and curry her favor and loyalty.
Remember the moral at hand. Better to bend like a reed than attack
like a snake. The reed is buoyant, pliable and endures with time.
Mighty oaks may break in a vicious storm, but reeds stand
firm and last.
Condition your woman
You have to think like Pavlov in order to condition your woman to
behave the way you desire. Your woman may expect you to bark orders
at her, criticize her or become angry when she upsets
you. But you choose to remain quiet, cast her an intense
gaze and speak in a soft tone. Again, you are a reed.
In a quarrel or conflict, if you transmit the depth of your
disappointment, anger and even rage toward your woman in a cool and
quiet manner, not only will you scare her straight, you
will gain immeasurable respect and obedience. In good
times, when the two of you are in bliss, express your love with as
much warmth as possible. Be spontaneous and romantic. Make love to
her. Be the man and be her man.
In other words, reward her with affection and attention when she
warrants it. Make it comfortable, easy and to her great advantage
to submit to you.
Draw her natural feminine instincts out
Women want men who take control, not men who are control
freaks. The difference is important. Control freaks are
narcissists who put their desires and needs first.
Men who take control are protectors and leaders. The satiation of
their desires and needs are the natural result of the effortless
and invisible control they wield. Men who take control take care of
their women. They treat them like royalty. They shelter them from
harm. They love them and they are loyal. But with a stern voice and
demeanor and an unflappable charisma, they engender passionate
loyalty in return.
A woman who displays the latter will do anything for her man. She
will be a whore in the bedroom, a good mother to his children, a
partner in business or in crime, and a fierce defender to his
detractors.
The Clint Eastwood tour de force Mystic River has a scene at the
end between Sean Penn and Laura Linney that best demonstrates the
theory in discussion. In a display of impressive spousal devotion,
Linney assures her husband of her steadfast support in the face of
a heinous crime. Incredulous, Penn rests his head on the bed as his
wife expresses her allegiance and obedience with not only words,
but also aggressive sexual advances. "You are the King," she
whispers.
How did Sean Penn's character provoke such loyalty in his wife? He
was a man who took care of his family. Their respect and the
respect of his peers were absolute and pure. As a result, his wife,
while no pushover and a strong character in her own right, was
ready to exercise his whims and let him lead.
then you get the power
Be a real man and apply the advice in this article
in order to manipulate the mind of your woman and gain control in
your relationship. Remember; manipulation is neither cruel nor
wrong if you love her. It is wise.
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Good article, except for the manipulation part. It drives a
point of being real men.
A few days ago, there's this article about men obeying women in
China. This is so wrong. They are behaving like slaves to
women.
Do women actually have any respect for such guys?
This is not much different from many men here. Their girls like to
give them silly demands, in which of course the men caved in
to.
Guys, don't be too soft just because of a woman. Don't make use of
women either but do not ever let them have the chance to step on
you.
As a man, do not be afraid to speak up your mind to the woman. Can
you imagine you a man, being afraid of a woman? It should be the
other way. Your mum will be so proud of you with a son like that.
And women will like real men.
doko
