Ways To Control Women

dinky1409 SG

Originally posted by allentyb:

goodness, she is too dumb and probably a moron who thinks that by thinking type this sentence - [b]Goodness, try using your brains and not BLINDLY follow such quotes which may be irrelevant/doesnt mean a thing etc.

she is the one, who wanted to insult me, then she contradict herself, by saying this is a general advice

then her following sentence is - MY GOODNESS!! Dont be so sensitive, can??

My earlier remark is not a personal attack to you but it's a GENERAL comment that applies to everybody.

Blah!!!

if she use HER BRAIN to think before she said anything, i will not even insult her at all

it may applies to everyone, so that included me, i already emphasis that this is not my theories, and it is for viewing purposes, if you don't like it, then ok, stick to the topic

why does she has to reply to my post?

with - this sort of comment Goodness, try using your brains and not BLINDLY follow such quotes which may be irrelevant/doesnt mean a thing etc.

i feel offended
hello, there is no cure for her sort of stupidity

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In this case, allentyb 1 Jerina 0 Mr. Green

b3cky SG

Originally posted by dokono:

Good article, except for the manipulation part. It drives a point of being real men.

A few days ago, there's this article about men obeying women in China. [b]This is so wrong.--> So u're saying women should be slaves to guys?

They are behaving like slaves to women.

Do women actually have any respect for such guys?

This is not much different from many men here. Their girls like to give them silly demands, in which of course the men caved in to.

Guys, don't be too soft just because of a woman. Don't make use of women either but do not ever let them have the chance to step on you.

As a man, do not be afraid to speak up your mind to the woman. Can you imagine you a man, being afraid of a woman? It should be the other way. Your mum will be so proud of you with a son like that. And women will like real men.

doko[/b]

Whether or not a guy chooses to give in to a woman is he's choice likewise for the ladies. Like I've said in the other "sexist" post of allentyb's, a relationship is all about something known as give and take. What's wrong with obeying a woman? Isn't your mum a woman too? In fact she carried you for a whole 9 mths before giving birth to you isn't that something respectable? A point to remember, the woman of today aren't like those of yesteryears.. long gone are the days in which a lady would stay at home and await her husband and give in to his every whine most are even single and well earning their own dough so give it some thought before you start critising. Alls fair in love and war.

b3cky SG

Fully agree Smile

soulwinner SG

very hard to control her..

BadzMaro SG

lol~ Laughing

elindra SG

you get yr way by letting her have her way Laughing

dokono SG

Have you read that article ? It's about the way the women control the men in certain parts of China. And the men are expected not to disagree with the women. This, in my view, is so wrong.

A woman as my mother and a woman as my lover are two different things. Perhaps you will see your boyfriend/husband as your father but I see it differently. They are separate as far as bgr relationships are concerned.

A mother to obey, yes agree, but a woman as a lover in a relationship are two different issues. Please do not lump them together. I believe as a man in a relationship should earn the right of being respected and allowed to lead. Note that I do not advocate controlling the woman and neither should women do the same thing to guys as well.

Yes, women nowadays have their own income and all that. Im all for it. In fact, it's good for the family. But we are talking in the context of a relationship, a man obeying to everything his wife tells him like how a slave does to his master is as good as losing all dignity and respect he should have.
It's totally different. The man can listen but doesn't necessarily have to follow everything she says.

Hence, a woman as a mother to obey does not equate to a obeying another woman like your girlfriend. And seriously, no guy likes to be a hen-pecked husband.

doko

b3cky SG

Obviously I've read the article but do u understand what an article is? Its something written by yet another human being do u seriously believe every single thing u read? Time to wake up buddy. A man obeying his wife doesn't make him a slave in any sense its his choice and to most it just comes across as being understanding and no one's asking him to "follow everything she says" as u put it. It is simply called a choice, one in which every single person is entitled to make so be clear and not stereotype or start sounding like some sexist. If u're one who doesn't like listening or doing what ur gf or wifes askes of u, by all means don't, no one's holding u at gunpoint to do so. What exactly are u trying to prove here? Try understanding the world more of the world or rather the human race. Really.

soulwinner SG

Maybe you want to teach me how to control a dangerous gal.. Mr. Green

TerenceYYK SG

it is not a matter of controlling but respect,we guys have respect for girls but seems nowadays very difficult for girls to respect us.....or vice versa? Very Happy

dokono SG

"Obviously you have read the article" and you still think it's right that men should be treated with such disrespect?

I guess you must be a woman to reply this strongly since you read with an already biased view that my post is sexist.

Pls read again with an objective mind which I think is difficult for you and tell me where I am being sexist. I have already stated very clearly, again for your sake, men should respect women as well as women respect men but should not be stepped on like idiots even if they are gorgeous.

Im condemning the way the women treat the men in china even if it's for promoting tourism. Put it simply, it's not right.

quote:"A man obeying his wife doesn't make him a slave in any sense?" Any sense? Can you believe it? Tell me who is being sexist here, you or me, my lady? I guess with your feminist ideals, it's hard to take any resistance from a real man. Because I know you like to be a Queen where you take your man to be an idiot. Maybe you hate men or think all men are stupid, I don't know nor wish to know.

To be fair, like you said, no one asked him to obey everything and you correctly stated it's a choice. And no, Im not trying to prove to you anything, but just let all the men know they have to have the respect, especially in a relationship, from a woman but should still treat them well. See, I say treat your kind well.

To sum it up, Im not attacking you or your sex. Im attacking the attitudes some women display, which I think is very wrong.

If after this post, you still say Im sexist, then you are a stubborn little girl who thinks all men owe you a living or you still need to read my post again until it sinks into your cute brain. Because I know not every girl is like you Very Happy

doko

b3cky SG

Okay i "suppose" u're mr high and mighty all matured and grown up for replying in such a manner. Do u not understand what I've written? I HAVE read the article but did I in any of the above sentence state that I agree that guys should be in any way treated as slaves?

And above u've mentioned that "i am a stubborn little girl who thinks all men owe me a living" yadah yadah, so which statement I've made suggests that? Assumptions and accusations on ur part. I agree that both sexes are NOT in any way or another to be treated as slaves and that a relationship is about compromising. Maybe u should be the one who should try to read and fully comprehend what I'm trying to saying before blasting off in such a manner which tries to convey that I'm that typical type of women whom u've read about in that article.

And in case u didn't understand me the first time, I'll re-explain it to u. An article is just a piece of news it may be true it may not be, than again it may only be a minority of what the writer has seen, who is to tell whether what was written was really the whole truth, it is afterall to gain viewership which in other words means money earned, thats the way the media works, not everything is the whole truth.

I have a bf too and we give each other mutual respect. So what were u saying again? Queen of the world? Seriously, treat me as a little girl all u want, its ur choice but remember its not neccessarily true that the older ones are wiser, life is afterall a learning journey. Listen and understand and u may learn a thing or two from the "little ones".

allentyb SG

i am just posting an article and it is really for viewing purposes, and i don't hate woman at all, so please refrain from replying to this post

and all this while, i have been flaming both the sexes, so i am not a sexist!

and i like to clear up the air abit, this article is meant for man who wants to have more self confidence, and believe in themselves, that they can take the lead in a relationship

in that article, some of the ways, can be quite to the extreme, if any woman was to disagree with what the article has to say, please don't target your post at me, i am merely posting, but please at least, mention that the one who written that article must be a MCP, please remember i am merely posting, those are not my actual word

this article is more meant for man, if any woman feel offended, then live with it, because i don't care, and i will never care, i already posted and i already explain clear enough.

If anyone don't heed my words, and reply to this post, with sentence, that you never give any thought about the consequence that will follow

at least, post something that make sense, and i could agree upon, so that there will not be any confusion on my part, as i can be rather trigger happy in flaming a person.

mark my words, i will flame the hell out of you, regardless the sexes

good day folks

Sheepophile SG

you know, as a woman, i should be honored to read such a thing. why? because men obviously are quite cluelss and feeling insecure how to handle us, that they need to formulate such a thesis to help better "manipulate" us. it may be a quick read, but its not really quite easy to practise all those listed in the article. instead of entering it with a close mind of "hey this is a sexist topic" if you think about it, alot of this "manipulation" trick actually requires alot of stamina on the man's part; this is actually more like a "how to treat your partner right" abeit in a tongue-in-cheek fashion. if you think its manipulation and it gives you satisfaction perhaps you can better perform the suggestions?

the whole idea is, to keep a relationship work, we have to work hard, not just oh me luv ya u luv me and then happily ever after. alot of endurance has to come in, and this "supposed manipulation" is just a case of how you take things in stride, and reap the benefits for your patience.

i advice women ought to treat men who actually have the patience to go through this thesis and practise what it preaches with the same respect (i.e. the same manipulation thesis); after all your man gives you alot of honor if he thinks you're worth the trouble of manipulation. LOL.

Laughing

b3cky SG

I like ur way of thinking Mr. Green

toyota-corolla SG

go control panel, go parental control, uncheck parental control. then click ok.

then restart your woman. Laughing

Bontakun SG

The simplest way to ‘control’ women is NOT to control them at all.

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