testin my patience... still coping..

last SG · 2007-04-04T19:26:01+00:00

or maybe another way is.. tell u r boss that u prefer to stay alone.. not comfortable staying with another person.. cos living lifestyle differ..

ilovethesun SG

yar.. i think she tinks im dumb. everytime i say smthg, she will.. " no.. " then will correct me. sianz.. like our colleague ask us how much we spend on todae's trip.. i will say abt £5.. agar agar..
then she is this kind who wil say.." no.. its not that much.. its abt £4.55"

u know.. !! its stressful even talking beside her.

i also cant stand her habits.
we were on a course last week, with colleagues fr other european branch.
and she can go to work with uncombed greasy hair .

i din give ani comments at all. coz she mite feel offended.
but if she's my fren, i definately wld have done smthg abt it..

browniebaobao SG

seems that she dun enjoy being alone with u..

ilovethesun SG

here for a couple of months only.

i told her once " how long is ur bf stayin with us?"
then she say " AT most 2 MONTHS wad... blah blah blah"

her tone realli veri rude !! i was so shock.

then the day before her bf came, i said " hm.. i think we shld clean the place up abit since ur bf comin"

then she " YAR.. i wAS planning to vacuum the carpet already WhaT"

but wad i meant was.. we can do some cleanin up together.. not askin her to clean or wad!!

u know her attitude.. i jus dun feel like talkin to her.. so hard to communicate!

lageihsif SG

anyway that place safe anot?

since its all guys going over there

ilovethesun SG

bingo!

last sat.. (the onli weekend so far that she had no frens over) ., she jus shut herself in her room WHOLE DAY!
haha. .i was amused coz its reali veri kua zhang.. .onli come out go toilet.. den go in liaoz..

i was in the livin room usin computer.

i duno why she dun like me so much.. (i feel) but i tot i was nice to her..

during our short company trip , she wil talk to everyone, laugh, "act cute" , giggle... haha.. den i tot abt her attitude at home.. when she walk past me and im like invisible... l

i find it quite amusing.. there must be something seriously wrong with me.. lolz..

ilovethesun SG

you know what.. our rooms has NO LOCK.. just a door knob. no lock at all..

and the toilet door cant be locked. so we jus close it if occupied.

Ito_^ SG

dun bow down to her attitude! she cannot go forever thinking she can bully other ppl juz because they are nice.

ilovethesun SG

i tot so too.. coz utility bills are all paid for by the company.

she is quite smart. usin our hse as a motel.. wonder how much her frens pay her.. heheh

lageihsif SG

Shocked Shocked

i think u seriously better report to the company...ask the boss come spot check without letting her know. then u act surprised to see the boss or something.

yihao93 SG

be a typical sgrean
COMPLAIN COMPLAIN AND COMPLAIN
Mr. Green

browniebaobao SG

it's not u, it's her lah.

maybe she needs time to warm up with u.

crabx SG

u working which part of britain? work as what? work how long? r u chio bu?

ilovethesun SG

and she bought a water filter boiler and hide it in her room..
hmm.. as though i wan to benefit from it..

so i also hide my modem

lageihsif SG

Laughing

ok. i would hide everything. tidbits etc

ilovethesun SG

haha. i hid my shampoo n conditioner. coz she refuse to get one for herself. den i hide my expensive PANTENE.. lolz.. evil !! but she left hers in the toilet ... but its too smelly for me.. so i wun use it even if desperate..

wa... Evil or Very Mad

SpeedStar SG

Living with other ppl which u dun know well will surely have some conflict. At least count urself lucky that she share the sam culture with u. I have to work and live with ppl from other countries, tolerate their behaviour, hygiene and alttiude. I think my character is very simple...I will not care what the F u r doing in ur rm...but if u mess up the apartment without cleaning or hinder me to do something i wanted to do....example like occupying the table with all ur books where actually i using it for dinner....I gonna screw until ur ass bleed.

Living with someone is not simple, as what I learn now...and sometimes it need more than patience to overcome it. As for the bf part, I think u can talk to her directly since it bother u so much. Unless she is v thick skin, or else u can expect some changes from her. Whether she like u or not is another think..anyway u work there is not to please anyone but urself so no need to bother whether she like u or not. Wink

ilovethesun SG

I tried talkin to her abt the bf part before he even came over, she either talk back at me in a veri defensive n rude tone, or she jus ignore me. quite kua zhang. but at work or infront of others she can reali hide it. I think she got split personality? i duno..

its hard living tog with someone whom u cannot relate to. i can empathise with u totally. it must have been much worse. i am particular abt the hygenie part.

i can be rude and bitchy if i wanted to.. but i jus tot that we had to work with each other when we return.. i dun wanna screw things up.

and complain to company is a gd idea. BUT.. i am afraid that i mite be deemed as tryin to start up company politics.. which isn;t reali a gd idea..

im stuck..

be positive--- i keep tellin myself

eviljustice SG

hmm. go seduce her bf. den all of them will leave.

ilovethesun SG

Embarassed if he is not bad looking, charming, tall , fit, intellectual, gentleman,
jus ani 2 of the above.. maybe i can force myself to do that...

but too bad.. cant fit in any category... Evil or Very Mad

eviljustice SG

aww. come stay with me instead

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