How to coax the wife?

last SG · 2007-03-06T03:34:23+00:00

No wonder.......... Rich-man daughter....... haha.... she's so called spoiled-brat la.... wat to do... too bad for ur guy fren.... That's e diff btw u n ur g...

Honeybunz SG

oh ok. Earlier on sms him to see if he's alright. The reply didn't sound too positive. sigh

Gackt247 SG

Zhuo nan ren hao nan.

SGpork SG

i still believe by staying single... lesser headache n problems

Neutral Neutral Neutral

Bontakun SG

1st time being accused of smth he is sure he did not do. Definately caught on the blind side and unable to handle it appropriately. He need to have a good tok with his wife and have her trust him more. Have faith in him basically.

As for you, I tink you shld ask some guy friends he and his wife noe to help him a little bah. As you said, he fear complications if you are involved.

SingaporeMacross SG

In this case, other people's marriages!! Laughing

SexyChin SG

Something to with with the ghost in your office? Mr. Green

AndrewPKYap SG

Tell him to dump his wife and go with you... hehehe sorry, just joking.

If he did it (not with you since you would know, I think, hahaha) then stop doing it.

If he did not do it, just tell the wife to sh*t up and get a life. Reacting to her if he did not do it will only make it look worse.

You must be pretty good looking for the wifey to suspect you. Laughing

the Bear SG

ahem.. be seen by them going out with me Embarassed

Twisted Evil

but seriously, no.. suspicion feeds on the imagination.. just go on with your work but keep in mind the distance and all that, let nothing on your side fuel whatever doubts she has...

do not go for lunch with him and stuff like that.. have lunch or dinner with other people..

hope everything works out..

Herzog_Zwei SG

Not much help either, some people are just plain paranoid. Maybe sending in the shrinks may help or even worsen things.

Mospeada SG

yoz honey...

is there something u are not telling us..

i seems to think that there is a critical piece missing in the entire puzzle

Mr. Green

the Bear SG

yo rumour-monger..

what are you trying to insinuate?

gerrykoh SG

For me- the answer is No. If he fool around, there is no more trust.
I'll definately divorce & take the kids, sue him for all his assets. That's why he dare not. Ha, ha.

Tell your colleague to spend more time with wife & family.
Buy her something expensive, wine & dine her. Stop going out with friends. If need to, keep to once a week. Come home early, can also bring her along.

elindra SG

Some women are just plain paranoid la
I kenna before also
His wife suspects we are having an affair
Then once she call me up to scold me and accuse me of being with her husband (coz he was not home yet)

Thing was, I was out with my friends so I was arguing with her on the phone and my friend snatched my phone from me and scolded her Laughing

She never bothered me from that day onwards.

I dunno what she is insecure about
Her husband works like a dog to support the family and she don't even need to come up with a single cent

At first it started with prank calls
Then I was complaining and my friend said it could be his wife coz she does that when she goes through his phone and sees a female name Shocked
Yeah I was pretty pissed and told her to stop it coz she was like calling me at 2am in the morning and I keep my phone on coz of my customers overseas and I do get calls then but hello!!! Work and prank calls different ><

Wah piang his wife his psycho I think

Mospeada SG

what an honour...

i am merely asking...

did i imply anything?

tis ur interpretion Wink

the Bear SG

you know what you were implying Wink

Mospeada SG

why dun u tell me what i was trying to imply...

i bet u got them on ur mind as well...

Wink

aren't we all thinking abt the same thing...

the diff is that i am more frank Wink

Mospeada SG

Honeybunz,

dun get me wrong...

i mean to say, u have not tell us the entire incident from the start to when it happened...

i dun think u need to do anything cos ur conscience is clear. The guy may have a bad record before, he will need to prove to his wife that he is innocent.

That is what i meant, unlike what other thinks. Wink

I dun assume Wink

the Bear SG

nope, i didn't have anything on my mind except a suspicious wife who is letting her imagination get away with her and honeybunz going "wtf??"

only your words insinuated those things...

remember.. words are like weapons, only that they cannot be sheathed once they are bared...

and you, of all people, should know that Wink

Mospeada SG

i do... i do...

and i do know the need to tell apart virtual and reality...

tis a sad thing that many pple judege me as how i am in this virtual world. I believe a wise bear like you know what i meant. Wink

Mospeada SG

how very interesting when a thread of asking for help became a 2 party talk thread

Laughing

dun u find it most intriguing

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