Ok nevermind.
Flaming is not just an art. ITS WAR itself!! 
Winning:
Outside of 'Flame' groups, where wars are routine, if there is one
sure thing about flaming, it is this: There are No Winners.
Flaming is the chess of the net; a long game of skill, planning a
campaign and being prepared for all that your opponent can throw at
you. By the end of the War, all involved can have little doubt of
the outcome.
If you were defeated, or merely a Firefighter on the periphery,
then you know your place - you may be so humiliated that you may
have to leave that group. But if you defeated a Damp Squib who
dared to oppose you, you may be the Flame Master - but you have
been seen to be a bully, and who wants to risk a few rounds with
you? You can stay in the group - but how welcome are you?
There are No Winners.
Strategy:
The key to survival is to think before pressing the 'send' button.
Always try to anticipate your opponent's next move, and ensure you
have not invited further insults. A flame war is a public event;
read the postings of the Firefighters, and try to keep in tune with
the Group's mood. It can be better to withdraw quietly than wait to
be isolated - and don't worry, the war will carry on without
you.
Silence:
Never underestimate the power of silence. The Flame Wars, like it
or not, is a clash of egos; and a public one at that. Being ignored
will rattle all but the most experienced protagonist. But this is a
positive action, not to be confused with sulking. Your self
control, if you are consistent, will enhance your reputation. It is
worth having a policy on silence, such as:
1. Never respond to simple abuse, it only encourages them
2. Never respond immediately; always see the number - and quality -
of posts
3. Never respond to two-centers - go for quality
4. Never respond to clinical insanity - chances are you cannot
help, and you risk a life-long relationship
Silence can be golden!
