Bachelor Life Vs Married /Family Life

last SG · 2007-02-21T19:51:59+00:00

a promise is easy to make just difficult to keep.

noahnoah SG

Wat are the pros and cons

of being stay single and there after

get marry and with kids etc Laughing

Single Life..........freedom , no commitment ....less $$$ burden

MArried/w/o kids ..... Less freedp, ... more responsible....

More $$ burden....... Enjoy the life of happiness with kids ....

Share your views Mr. Green

T.Ryousuke SG

Ppl start telling me regrat getting married.

tomsss SG

not married = no more next generation of you = one branch of the big family line ends here

noahnoah SG

I asked a lot of girls

always say told me like kids a lot

leh

then when ask guys say

prefer not to have kids

true a not ar

wonder do your gf or wife tell you ppl

i want to have kids

I Love kids........... Very Happy

then you remain silent Confused

Classyfied SG

my preferred choice will b to get married but with no kids Wink

Lorry` SG

it's definitely no good (at least for me) for married life ....
Neutral

i just dont see anything good bout it?

Classyfied SG

u nid a companion at some stages of ur life..
to share ur sorrows and worries and burden Wink

Cool-gal SG

finding the right one is very important.
so its better late than sorry.

monoslayer SG

i wish to get married soon but still financially not stable yet. Neutral

noahnoah SG

I think when one reach 30 years old

you will start to tink about family life

Wehn you see ppl with kids

you will start to think how nice sia

if i have a family like this

But when you think about $$$

it might set you back

But a lot of ppl told me having a children

wil really help to make the married relationship

better and close Laughing

Schwing SG

hmm...i've always wanted a family of my own...being able to settle down with someone you love and who loves you is a blessing...

when i was single, i lead a carefree life...going anywhere i want, doing anything i want...the power of freedom...but, when i go out with friends who are married, sometimes for coffee or sometimes to overseas, i felt lonely...when special occasion comes around, i felt lonely...and when couples tell me the things they did together, i envied them...how i wished i had someone special around my arms...

and now, i'm happily(really!!) married and trying for kids...i don't deny that there are times where there's more than just friction, be it financially, difference in opinions, or just plain PMSing, but somehow, things just works out... Wink

csp3976 SG

When u r 30 and not marry. Ppl will keep asking u "when getting marry yeah?" Then u will start to think about marriage life.
When u r married w/o kid. Ppl will ask you "when are u planning to have children huh?" Then... u start to think of having children.
Actually, just follow the process and want those ppl to shut up.
When u have children liao... of course better relationship lah. Coz u want to give them the best and do not want your children to live in a family with lot of problem.
Children is like a glue that glue the family together.

SevenEleven SG

and before long your kids turns teen to twenties and its their turn to be asked the QUESTIONS again
Laughing

noahnoah SG

NORMALLY

girls are more hurry into marriage one

because they scare later when they turn old

no ppl want them anymore haha

Laughing

csp3976 SG

My view is....
Value will start to drop when they reach 30... but for men 35 are just starting. Thats why women wanted to get married when they still have the value.

viewquek SG

Your view is fully supported.
Very Happy

Urroh SG

married life is more fulfilling.. if you are living a bachelor life for 10 years.. YOu will think of settling down.

I feel having kids bonds the marriage closer.. If both parents are working, there shouldnt be any prob supporting the households.. IF you budgeted yr money well, going for holidays every half year shouldnt be a prob.

Marriage means at least you have company. Friends will have their own commitments with work and family.

xiaodingdung SG

until now im still thinking abt this question, haiz...dunnoe how to answer..im still speechless leh...even if call helpline also useless bah...cos . . . . . . . . . Rolling Eyes

BillyBong SG

It is interesting to note that divorce rates are on the rise, with cheating, adultery among the reasons why early couples choose to annul their marriages instead of working on rekindling them.

More and more among the local Chinese population are either staying single or getting married at a later date; is that any wonder why Chinese nationals with a simple degree and stable job are getting citizenship faster than every before?

In any case, the pursuit of money, and lots of it, has sparked off a fervent race to secure the golden egg nest and early retirement; people no longer derive satisfaction from a job well done. Instead of on-job passion, it has become a rat race for a fatter wage package.

mystee SG

get married or attached when u are ready for commitment. those who get married because of shotgun etc.. will not be happy in the later stage, as they are not ready for commitment.