Bachelor Life Vs Married /Family Life

Urroh SG

hmm.. Its whether the couple wants to stay commited to each other..

Commitment is a choice.. you can choose not to stray or to stray..

It IF you want to stay commited to marriage.. doesnt depends on age.

If you are not ready commit then dun marry or even find a bf/gf.

jacqn SG

it takes a lot of effort for both parties to keep the relationship/ marriage going.i am the pessimistic type i am not cofident myself to make the relationship last too. people change, with environment and time.. dare not to put too much heart into relationship, cos afraid to be hurt. very sad hor.

Kenashi SG

if u cannot find the one u want to spend the rest of yr life with, it is better to stay single.
i can't find someone who love me for who i am, they always want me to be someone that i ain't
what the point? Neutral

Mid9Sun SG

Both just need to try their best...if cannot work out...no regrets....

Like now..i always wonder abt this particular girl cos I didnt try my best back then....

jacqn SG

getting married id just like organising a show to let people see. you may hold a grand wedding many people may never forget, but in the future who knows what will happen to the couple?

Kenashi SG

getting married is just signing on a piece of paper
to keep a marriage going takes a lifetime of commitment n care.

jacqn SG

who can promise lifetime??

Kenashi SG

a promise is easy to make just difficult to keep.

T.Ryousuke SG

Commitment is a big word, it can be $,time and effort. And it mean different to diff ppl. Eg if you earn $3k a mth ~take home $2.4k. to some gal this is not enough even she is working.

For those who had made the effort and fail the first time will understand how difficult it can be. Both parties must work towards the same direction and understanding on many aspect. IQ/EQ play a big part to a happy marriage.
Not only commitment and $. freedom can also be the main factor ppl giveup their marriage.

Family life is still the best choice to many cos together u achieve more thing.
Whether to have children is one thing, family do motivate one to work hard.

jacqn SG

ppl dont always practice what they preach. sorry if sound offensive, just thought of it. true we know theres a lot of effort to be made, but how many ppl really make it a point to work towards it? it can be tiring.

Schwing SG

you're better off dead if you keep thinking like that... Laughing
whether or not one has a grand or perfect wedding is not essential, i think no matter what happens in future, one can never forget that day...not me, at least...

it's true nobody can tell what lies ahead, but, if you never try, i guess you'll never know...i don't believe in holding back in a relationship, cos, i think if you really fall in love, you'll never know when to hold back...

if working towards what you want is tiring, do you expect life be served to you on a silver platter? open mouth got food, stretch your hands got money...
it's important to have a dream, set a target, even if you fall short, at least, there's something to live for...

wildlife123 SG

Indeed, married life is not easy...
dont know why, after married, couple seems got pressured to have kids...
married life already not easy... they thought having kids will be merrier...but that dont seems to be but add on burden, esp. when their kids did not live to their expectation ie bringing them joy. Am i right? Laughing

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