Things u regretted doing to someone u like very much

BearBear® SG

Well we r like good friends in the past. I had become her closest friendone who knows her secretsone who appreciates her and laughs with her.we talk about any thing under the sun
Ive regretted confessing my feeling to her and now we r like strangers. I really do not want our friendship to turn out like that. I had tried very hard to save this friendship and I believe I had done my best. Perhaps, its something that I just cant change no matter how hard I work. Crying or Very sad

skycrawler SG

u female or male?

BearBear® SG

Male

skycrawler SG

if u are a male, why would u regret telling her ur secrets...
or may be u have other intentions to her, so she scared liao??

skycrawler SG

if we like someone, then we'll never regret of knowing her/him, even tough she/he hurts our feelings, again and again...
coz, all that matters is just how our feeling to her/him. Not every effort turns to gold, right?

Storm SG

hey man...

i think it's perfectly fine to tell someone that you like him/her... now its up to the recipient to see how he/she will react lor. If the recipient is mature enough and does not think that way about you, then you can still remain friends, no problem.

on your part, you can tell her that you like her, but you also don't want this to affect the relationship. i think she already said no to you, so just tell her that it's cool... but don't overdo it lor. if she overreacts and turns cold on you, don't try too hard to get her to become your close fren again. it'll probably backfire...

toothie SG

Crying or Very sad

BearBear® SG

I regretted it becoz i know i dont stand a chance to be with her. If i did not confess my feelings to her, we r still good friends
I think it's time to me to leave her alone. I hope I can find a way to rebuild this friendship.

ZeroCold SG

i agree with storm

xavier1979 SG

It may not be your fault. It may be that the girl finds it hard to be normal friends with you again.

www SG

one way or the other, u wont like how things work out.

u told her about it and u guys became strangers, u regret it.
if u didnt tell her abt it, 10 years down the road, u regret it as well.

look at it from the bright side, at least u said wat u needed to say and did what u needed to do. that's cool. Smile

Parka SG

When I see this question. Needless to say. Must be male. Cause it's always the female who cause all this we-can-be-the-kind-of-friends-we-used-to-be-sorry problem. I am biased, I know. But am I right?

Parka SG

typo above. It's

www SG

errr.. not entirely true. there are guys who react that way as well hehe.

Parka SG

Hmm. Must be I haven't seen enough real life stories.

kuaigirl SG

well, similar thing happen to me too...

i used to be very close to one of my colleague. i confessed my feelings to him when i knew i like him alot... maybe too eager... in the end, he sort of avoided me and we began to drift very far... i was reali so sad... though till now, i know we cant be as close as what we used to be, i stil never regret coz at least i know how he feel towards me... sometimes, it reali hurts to know who he is after but then, i stil sincerely hope that he will be with the best and of coz someone who love him too...

jOhO SG

parka, www:

how about pple that confess then get rejected but it's not the confessee that throws the cold shoulder but the confessor?? ahhaha probably too shy and ashamed to face the person again after getting rejected... Mr. Green

Storm SG

Well, I guess it's inevitable, but to me, I think it'll be perfect (maybe even idealistic) if an adult confesses his/her feelings to another adult, but if the feeling is not reciprocated, just be big boys or big girls, tell the other person "Thanks, but I don't feel that way for you" and just continue as if nothing happened... Just know that you have to watch your words/actions from now on in case you are inadvertently leading the other person on... Mr. Green

startrightnow SG

Crying or Very sad almost same situation !!!

Parka SG

Never thought of that......hmm......