rain_tree SG i think ur reaction in this is very very important... she might be juz testing u... if my close guy friend tell me he like me the first reaction is to run... whether to consider his chances anot is something i will consider later... depend on his sincerity and his reaction during this period of time... if he can keep his cool and offer to be friends again... tats a plus point... at least i noe he wun go kill himself if we break up in the future... but dun be too cool lar... at least show some sadness lar... haha... cuz too cool liao means his feelings for me are not deep enuff.... gd luck pal
rain_tree SG for other ppl who wanted to confess their affections for their close friends but haven do it... could try to buy gifts for her first... small ones... dun confess ur love first... if not she will run... if she commented hello kitty is very cute... buy her one no matter how disgusted feel abt hello kitty... but always remember to say... no special reason for buying it... if not she will suspect u like her... den she run again... if her eyes are too dry (normally contact lense wearers)... immediately get her eye drops... she headache get her panadols... juz be a sensitive nice old buddy... nv nv let her pay for her food... a gal will be very touched if somebody still pay for her when he doesnt haf special feelings for her... those who pay for her while going after her will be taken for granted most of the time... when u noe she is feeling very very depress.... take sometime b4 showing up at her doorstep... let her haf time to miss u first... and finally when u noe she is so deep in love with u already... accept her loh... hahhaa... she wun tell u de... u can see from her eyes and actions... she might even hint u... gals dun normally go after guys... juz face it
rain_tree SG gd luck depend on which type of gal she is loh... some decide start away when she first met u whether u are bf material... tats why ppl say first impression is important... hehehe the other type doesnt think much until something happens... den start to consider hehehe.... see which one she is loh
lyonen3 SG ya lor.. me and my buddy also very close frens...we nearly got together but i didn't want to spoil the friendship and up til now we still good buddies and he got attached to someone else also... in life surely got things you do will regret one...but remember...there's lotsa people out there u haben meet yet...!
shadow_warrior SG take it easy pal...could be solve easily and not as bad as you think? Be positive. Cheers.
Si|verGer SG i think dat the greatest fear of all. . .sumtime u juz wana say out to get it off ur chest but things dun turn out the way u hope it will but wif a twisted ending. . . mayb if u nv say u still hv left a frenship. . . anyway dun b too sad i guess tis happen to all ppl at least once or more. . .
