Marco_Simone SG Guys,please show u r buay song if u really buay song with her! Dont continue to be an idiot even though she has made u unhappy!
digicharat SG sg guys are too wimp to do that. they should continue being used, squeezed dry and get kicked around. then finally get dumped when the girl find another better prey. yes. that should be the way. anyway, men are just too dumb.
Bontakun SG I cannot exactly tell you that coz I am NOT married. Nor have I prior experience in such stuffs. This one you best ask those with good healthy marriage. Maybe your parents, some friends, neighbours perhaps? But you can start by thinking about the good guy/bad guy formula in a family situation. How many percent of da good guy do you need to portray before your partner sees you as "boring" and maybe do smth naughty behind your back juz for the sake of fun? How many percent of da bad guy do you have to keep before she finds you icorrigible or to tiring to settle you down and file for divorce? If you date purely for the sake of dating, your "formula" is ok in some sense. If you "date" not for dating, BUT really for the intention of sharing your life with another person as he/she would share with you, I suggest you show your true self and also see his/her true colours and see if you two can get together and not be those who marry and divorce. I am sure you do not want that, right? Ask the people who have been through such and those who can maintain good relationships with their spouses. They can answer your questions more than I can think of for now.
suss.adele SG niceguys aka doormats are really THE turnoff of the century. when they get married they'll be....what's that word? henpecked! but of course they shouldn't be view on as the macho macho guy that makes all the decisions la. it's all abt striking a balance
KenPlus SG I alway believe in something call Give and take,if u treat me nice,of course i will be nice too,if not then bye bye haha
Marco_Simone SG fu-ck u kiddo,stop hijacking my thread before i throw that 30kg dumbbell on your head
xShevchenkox SG ya lo...l oso agree with wad digicharat and marco says...if they climb over our head and make us angry...we shld be buay song and angry...ya maybe this might result in a breakup or wad...but hor at least our dignity and identity are saved... Dignity and identity to guys is very impt..dun becos of juz a gal...u throw them away...is very foolish..they the gal are so smart...we guys oso hav to buck up and counter them back lo... And to add if u are those ppl that likes gals....wrk hard lo..hav a good career..u wan how many pretty de zabor..all queue up for u to choose siah...so what for?
Bontakun SG Well............. I can only agree to a certain degree. I dun like generalising so... I do believe all of us have a long road ahead and we have many chances and time to learn more. Slowly our views and values will be augmented, even by abit. Then by that time we can all review the current views and "compare" with our past views. In this is what I believe how we can strive to be a better person to benefit not only ourselves and to those around us. Beers!
Bontakun SG Airpork!!! And Shev, da only part I agree to an extent is actually "men are dumb", but I dun like generalising. So......
xShevchenkox SG haha oh lclc, shld hav say clearly mah!!1 .....hmm quite true...men are dumb... l am one of the dumb ppl in the past...native, dumb, stupid suits me well last time but certainly not now liao...
Bontakun SG We all learn in life. Kudos to you for learning a valuable lesson not many can have the privilage to learn.
xShevchenkox SG Agree too...the lesson makes me learn more things and make my eyes more open now.. But sumhow the lesson is really a bad and painful one no wonder hear old ppl say..only when u hav taste the pain liao..then u will realise the mistake
