Space1999 SG sex tips the balance of power in many relationship in many case, men after obtaining the "sex" becomes the dominant party and woman become the submissive party, because the guy has got what he needed already. He already conquered the mountain and he could 1.opt to build a base camp at that mountain and try to make it inhabitable for himself until he cannot stand the harsh condition 2. move to another mountain to conquer (the more agressive alpha males(i.e the more successful man, will do that)- more for players 3. the man falls in love with the mountain and stay on despite the harsh condition there and finally dies there( very common with normal singapore man ) 4.the mountain somehow changes its own environment to help the man stay there. less snow, more greenery(very rare) so sex is always a pawn in the game of relationship. but in saying that a relationship without sex will be a very unhealthy one. so parties should always engage in monogamous sex before marriage, after marriage heheh all bets are off but remember great sex = great relationship =great marriage good luck ye all who is not married yet
Space1999 SG as much as i hate to agree with you you are completely right. if you pump , you have to pay best solution?make yourself sterile, then you can pump and dont pay , even then hard to say lor
blu_sky SG Sometimes it is due to emotional baggages. Some men have it too, not exclusively to women.
hisoka SG one reply you want to quote how many times i'm sayign in singapore becuase we are in a singapore context and i don't know about the whole world so i cannot say the world. even if the whole world does something, it does not make it right meerely accepted. yes you can say that if you want to have sex then accept the consequences but notice that women have one more u-turn point provided by law and thats the decision to abort. men don't have that chance/choice and yet have to pay for the choice the women makes. coming from a viewpoint that both parties should be responsible for their choices, don't you think that the man should be made less responsible considering the deprivation of choice? what happens if the pregnancy occured when contraception failed? note precuations done and taken to reasonable limits, the man is still "held hostage" as you mentioned in your post
Space1999 SG well the choice to penetrate is yours. once you decide to launch , you have to bear all consequences, no matter how unfair the world is to man when it comes to this , and me of all man still believe that if you have the balls to do it to someone , you should have the balls to take the responsibility! if not, wear 2 condoms!
Space1999 SG i mean if some lady i had sex with ten years ago turn up with a ten year old kid and says he is mine , and the dna test prove it so , i will take full responsibility! and my wife will understand and support me because thats the right thing to do!
hisoka SG i better save your ass in case you decide to play "safe" wearing 2 condoms actually increases the chances of failure................ the law is biased against men and thus i'm pointing it out. you can choose to just accept it and lie down but thats your choice.
Space1999 SG yeah , i do the ass just to be safe... and wearing two condoms?that is a joke the things you said just made us guys look bad.
blu_sky SG On child bearing, nature is bias against women, so law has to make it up in that aspect! Be fair. Turn the table around. if men had been given the responsibiliy on child bearing (not by choice), wouldnt you have hoped that women will have to take the same responsibility?
hisoka SG still never expalin why you need to quote 2 times. that life not law, its nature not man made or imposed.
Space1999 SG but i have to agree also singapore woman especially the older ones are complicated...the younger ones started out fine, then the contamination and corruption that all man are bad starts to set it. that leave even the nicest guy with the nicest intention subject to all sorts of witchhunt by the bandidos love and relationship should be simple like my younger times, thats why i married my wife,she is beautiful , simple , accept my flaws , love my sense of humor and we get it on at least 3 times a week and the most important thing i know what she wants , how ?because she tells me exactly what she wants and there is no guessing involved.
blu_sky SG Pardon me for my curiosity, if your marriage life is so happy, then why are you still looking for flings outside?
Space1999 SG thats why we are given the guns, how we use it and where we use it defines us. some man uses their guns lawlessly and in the process defiles it. some man keep it well holstered until they find a good use for it if you want to be a bandit , be prepared to go to jail
Space1999 SG sigh, can you differentiate between flirtations and the real thing? did i ever really private message you for real dates? if im really interested in dating you i would have done that. you know what is a joke and what is not a joke? sorry to be blunt , you are really not my cup of tea. you will be the exact woman that i will not date in real life. my wife reads this forum too and she takes my jokes here with a pinch of salt.
blu_sky SG x2 With great power, comes great responsibility. You cant want the power, yet shirk the responsibility. You cant have the best of both worlds, in short.
