He flouts it, and she becomes pregnant. now, she hates son f

RETARDED_MORON SG

Time for high doses of aphrodisiac. Cool

Space1999 SG

they did plan to get married , i think maybe in another year or so but i guess both parties like to tempt with fate and hence leaving so many opportunities in between to stray apart,
and happen it did
right or wrong, there is no wrong parties. The moral of the story.if you meet somebody you are sure of (that is both want to have sex- very important issue here ) dont tempt fate - close the deal fast! Twisted Evil

oxford mushroom SG

Until the recent changes in the law, there is no rape within marriage in British common law.

It had previously been judged in common law that married women had no capability or authority to not consent:

The sexual communication between them is by virtue of the irrevocable
privilege conferred once for all on the husband at the time of the marriage
(R v Clarence, '1888').

But the husband cannot be guilty of rape committed by himself upon his
lawful wife, for their matrimonial consent and contract the wife hath given
up herself in this kind unto her husband, which she cannot retract. (Sir
Matthew Hale, 1736 History of the Pleas of the Crown)

In a subsequent 1991 case R v R, the trial judge made up his own law, allowing the concept of marital rape and ignored the earlier precedents on the grounds that times had changed. The case when to the court of appeal:

The Court of Appeal concluded:
We take the view that the time has now arrived when the law should declare
a rapist a rapist subject to the criminal law, irrespective of his relationship with
his victim.

Lord Lane dismissed Sir Matthew Hales statement as being a statement of the common law at that epoch, where the common law rule no longer remotely represents what is the true position of a wife in present-day society.

With the current changes in the law in Singapore, the government has codified what it perceives to ne the sentiments of Singaporean society on this matter and avoids unnecessary future legal battles in this respect.

blu_sky SG

Close the deal by having sex?

So many people still straying despite having a sex life with their partners!

geodome SG

stupid woman.

stubborn man.

period.

jastinn336 SG

Ooo no, went wrong ones side it encourage to give more birth on the other side set of law been set up for sex cases.
making the things worst it going to discourage couple to marry and give birth rate a boost.
i hope they will look further before implent the law soon and find solution . not to wait 5 years later discover that there some loop holes to it.

well this also open up the foreign bride buziness and foreign "mummy" soon. than wat will be the singapore girl/woman stand....after 5 years later.....

BrUtUs SG

the article is to say tat woman deserve more power...

nanren4ever SG

Ok, the husband "raped" her, and she became pregeant.

But she must remember the child is INNOCENT!! What has the child done to make her dislike him so much?

As a parent, isn't it her duty to take care of it, no matter what?

kawasaki2 SG

No, it's not about the woman or her husband and their marital or sexual status.

This story is showing us that our media has nothing better to report besides these sort of stories. This is a married couple's private affair, and why should it be printed in the new paper???

fymk SG

Ok ...assuming it isn't post natal depression .

A child resulting from rape of any form usually suffers - it reminds the woman of the act forced upon her against her will . Usually most women will abort , this lady probably kept the baby since it is her husband's . I would say it is a grey line of what the responsibility she holds. She chose to keep it . Fair enuff - now she just gives the care of the child to her relative .It's her choice. This was caused by her husband - he has more of a moral responsibility to the child than her.

Even the stauch anti abortionist views of the Vatican has allowed some form of waiver on "fruits of transgression" to be aborted . I might guess that this is due to the psychological damage done to the woman which in turn could be inflicted by her on the child .

redpicanto SG

Married without sex? Can u drive a car without steering wheels? Please lah, men needs to have sex and sex is one important role in a marriage. No men can resist to sex tempation unless his kukujiao cannot make it. yes, u kiss, u hug, u touch, but at peak point siddenly stop, how can!

She should be reminded that if her husband cannot get sex pleasure from her, he will end up in Geylang or worst, having an affair outside, bring home and make her watch. She should watch porn and learn to enjoy or find ways to fulfill her husband. Dun like sex, at least masterbate for him. Or have a talk with him to go easy and slow on her, let her take control instead of her husband.

As for the child, I dun believe her heart will not soften when she see her child smile and laugh, or hear her child 1st time call her ma ma. If she heart heart still not soften, do you believe she still love her husband. The child is innocent one, your own flesh and blood lah. Dun spoil the child's chillhood.Even if she say she was raped and feel dirty, at least she was raped by her husband and not by others, dirty, of course feel dirty, drunk and have not bath Laughing Just image she wear sexily laying on bed, triggering her husband sex drive, who can tahan mah? Evil or Very Mad

blu_sky SG

I tend to believe that, when a woman choose to give birth to a baby, she has the responsibility to love and provide for him/her. Likewise for men.

Space1999 SG

hard to say , she might be one of those woman who loves herself more than others, thus she protray herself as the victim(yes she is the victim) but at the same time not claiming any responsibility for their current state of affairs, she is the type who believe everybody else is wrong and she is right.

if she is considerate a bit , she would have at least try some remedy looking at her poor husband , but she didnt -she chose to shut off all kind of solution.what if husband went out have sex with a hooker got std, or aids , and then it will be different headlines.

just because i dont want to have sex, he got sexual diseases from outside!

men can never win,

Space1999 SG

not sex, marriage!
Twisted Evil

hisoka SG

men are held hostage byt he women's choice in singapore actually.
if the women say want to keep the guy no choice and need to pay also.............

Fey Mae SG

the woman needed psychiatric help; it is very likely that her “craziness” drove her husband mad in some ways. so they are both at fault, but who causes it first?

Space1999 SG

actually many woman need psychiatric help,because the older they grow , the more complex they get, thats why younger woman are better, easy to understand and communiciate Razz
that is why man like to buy the latest model of any high tech things, to simplify the menu and commands. once they buy something they dont understand, more or less they throw it away for models that are more simplified yet look nice. Twisted Evil
the older they get, start to cant understand what they say Rolling Eyes
yes means no?
no means yes?

blu_sky SG

This i agree Wink

blu_sky SG

Wau lau, you want to have sex, then you must be ready for that responsibility. If not, dont have sex!

blu_sky SG

And com'on! you mean this situation is different in other countries? Other countries' women cant hold men in hostage? Only singapore women can?

Dont suka suka anyhow say, anyhow complain leh Rolling Eyes

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