hey dude, dun be stressed.........u reallie nid to build up some
confidence!.....
u hav taken the first step by trying to talk more...if u can, y not
try to learn some "crappy" or lame jokes dat can brighten up pple's
day?....yeap......
as fer the sudden change, i tink ish alright actually........i got
a fren, whom i know from JC, he was quite a quiet person initially
when i first got to noe him...but after a few days he became
completely different and talked so much and behaved so differently
dat we couldnt believe dat dat is him!!!......
and as fer pple leaving u out for outings and stuff like dat,
again, i tink u dun tink so much okay?.....dere are such a thing
called "clique" and sometimes pple juz feel dat dey onli wan to go
out with pple of their own "clique".....yeap......my advice fer u
is dat u go n find a few friends (one or two) whom u tink can
understand u......yeah build up ur friendship with dem and soon u
will find dat pple tend to be more conerned abt u when u are good
friends with dem........
and abt not joining basketball game because u felt shy, i tink u
urself hav to change this.....sometimes, when majority if ur frenz
like something, y not juz follow suit and do it?.....for myself i
was in a class of onli 7 guys (including me) and the rest of the
six of dem liked to play basketball......n i myself hated to play
basketball..............so wad to do?....JUZ GO N PLAY
LARH!!!.....i told myself i muz be receptive to new stuff and
needed to try new things.....so i went to play.......in the
end.....though my basketball skill not very good, however at the
end of the day, not onli my friendship with dem has deepen, n also
i hav learnt something new...though till now i still dun reallie
like basketball, but den at least, i know how to play and wont feel
left out..........
....surely pple wont judge u by ur basketball skills?....and
different pple got different strength......n if u consider
symphonic band as introvert cca, den wad do u tink if i tell u dat
i joined one of the clubs and society in my sch?.......and dun
forget, band has so manny pple if i nt wrong?......y not also make
some friends from ur CCA who share the same interest as
u??................
and lastly, urself.....u hav to be sincere in makin frenz......y
nt, if hav a chance, do something fer the class (like buying some
sweets for dem during valentine's day, which is over
liao)......yeap....when pple start to thank you, nt onli u will
feel a sense of satsifaction, however, pple also will change their
view poiints of u.......
yesh, i believe juz be urself......but den if u reallie wanna
change de these are my few advices fer u.........
