Mr Biscuit, i want to clear something up. When i first started
this forum early on, you asked me to go to your forum and asking me
to join it. To be honest, when i went over i felt the culture there
did not suit me. So i decided to remain in this forum. But i think
you kept "paging" for me. I wanted this forum to be different in
that different ppl are attracted to different things. It was not
because i didn't respect your forum. I felt that your forum is
already established with a certain identity which does not
represent me. Your forum felt to me (and its really good for the
die hard fans) very male dominated, structured, and very
informative about Nissan technical stuff. I wanted to be in a more
relaxed, simple and more girls and guys fun site. So thats why i
feel its healthy to have different forums to cater to different
ppl. I don't think its fair to restrict ppl to this or that site.
that's why when you posted your site (in our very first few pages a
long time ago) i decided to check it out.. and even recommended
many ppl who chanced on this site to go over to consider that site
too. But i feel now that it is unfair to say we snatch ppl from
your site. I don't think we all own these sites, the ppl who log on
make it happen. And they have to feel comfortable and have an
affinity with it to make contributions to it without feeling
forced. it should happen naturally. I feel sad that there are all
these unhappiness between ppl that have not even met in person.
live and let live.
