The Top 10 Subjects To Avoid in Early Stages of a R/S

last SG · 2007-02-20T19:00:15+00:00

hmm? i tot u have a gf? i think it's the opposite for me.. i want to know but they dun really wana say..

Båseline SG

Was searching something from my back-up CDs when I came across this one in one of the folders. Will post others in time to come. Mr. Green

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This Top 10 was created during a Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus Workshop (developed by Dr. John Gray, facilitated by Barbara Hannah.)

1. Past relationships / previous sex life.

2. Commitment.

3. Marriage or children.

4. Inner emotional difficulties or personal problems.

5. Weaknesses.

6. Financial woes or legal problems.

7. Mom or Dad.

8. Physical ailments.

9. Politics or religion.

10. Things I don't like about you.

Båseline SG

Whoooppps.... think I could hv post this in Dating Advice forum instead. Oh well. Shocked

browniebaobao SG

Upz~!

Thank your for sharing.

But somehow I feel that it's good to make things clear earlier, so that both knows where is the limit and decide whether they can really accept each other.

rmyfrm SG

precisely!

that's why when I read AA posts ... I can't help but Rolling Eyes at alot of the threads

SingaporeMacross SG

hmm, some of it does make sense. But still, honesty is the best policy.

browniebaobao SG

hello!

this is the first time i see your nick. Wink

welcome to Hotel Heartbreak~ Laughing

browniebaobao SG

some things are better not to be too honest about.

Cool-gal SG

its good to have some secrets by urself.

sand king SG

Laughing why?

SingaporeMacross SG

you working for the CIA or KGB is it? Laughing

trendz SG

Hmmmm….

Seth35 SG

But if friends purposely say those things for you and all the while you kept your mouth shut ?

Fatum SG

Originally posted by Båseline:

9. Politics or religion.

fark ! ... again ! ... Mad

T.Ryousuke SG

Why avoid? wait until married then discuss? Better to know earlier if not the pain will be more after both have committed.

zodi SG

how early is early?

browniebaobao SG

simiwagoh?

Seth35 SG

simiwagoh?

Spy Agency

Herzog_Zwei SG

Maybe browniebaobao is MI6. Mr. Green

Seth35 SG

Maybe browniebaobao is MI6.

Mrs Bond

xShevchenkox SG

As for me...l tink it is good to be truthful to ur partner

l am already very truthful with my good guy frenz liao...l dun see the reason to hide my past and etc, my thoughts to her...

l was tinking if l can be so truthful in front of my good guy frenz...l dun see the reason to hide any secrets from the woman that l am going to live with till old..

Besides l dun really hav any dark secrets or secrets that is very bad or unpleasant Confused