you seem to have a good head on ur shoulders. in situations like
this, rationalise instead of emotionalise. easy to say i know, but
well, ur decision is purely logical, so keep it that way, continue
to use ur head and suppress ur heart now.
i know i'm being stereotypical, but this is a time where u gotta be
a MAN, u know 'they' complain we are emotionless and get over break
ups easily. well for your case, let's hope they are RIGHT. cos u
now need this trait that is more inherent in us males.
i dun think u've lost ur self-esteem. i feel confidence in your
writing, you admit that u were belittled, but you weren't ashamed
about it. that's courage, and that's standing up for what is/was
important to you, her happiness, not yours. it's got nothing to do
with self-esteem. if indeed it has waned becos of her, then u
better get it back, for the sake of the girl that will truly love
u, in time.
btw, click on the banner to come to the bbq, we need guys like you
to uplift the overall impression of the guys in this forum.
