Originally posted by BillyBong:
He jolly well might not be
coming back? Are you so quick to brand him a
defaulter already? For all you know he might
jolly well come back to serve too. Have you
considered that as well?
At the end of the day, can anyone ensure that he will be back to
serve? That is the million dollar question. Assuming that he is
allowed to defer his NS for his violin plucking lessons. Few years
down the road, he decided not to come back, so who is going to be
responsible for that? Are we just going to resign and accept the
fact that another one just defaulted on NS? I may be quick to think
of him as a defaulter, but ain't you as quick to brand him as a
non-defaulter? You might be able to give him the benefit of the
doubt, but not me, I am a pragmatist. If such a situation can be
avoided, then it should.
Originally posted by BillyBong:
With music qualifications, do you doubt that he cannot find a niche
market in Singapore to promote music and the arts? Are you
comparing the relatively PALTRY PAY of musicians against the
MONEYBAGS of investment bankers, litigation lawyers, CEOs of MNCs
etc? How narrow-minded is that? There is more to just earning big
bucks. and there are certainly more opportunities in the west,
where music is well-established. But shouldn't we start somewhere?
How else should we progress?
Frankly, in my opinion with a classical music degree, the
prospect in the West is better. I can't even recall any classical
musician that is based in Singapore who have made it good. I have
never compared the salaries of different professions, that's your
assumptions. What I am comparing is the availability of classical
music career in Singapore right now. The situation might change,
but till it does, I stand by my thinking. You might be the
arty-farty person, but not me. Progress in our society, that's
definitely a yes, but not at the expense of compromising national
defense. An additional man in the orbat is an additional fighting
chance.
Originally posted by BillyBong:
Your single comment of 'while he is plucking his violin
strings' displays abject contempt for a
fellow Singaporean. In times of war, will you be one of those who
selectively chooses WHO TO AID
IN BATTLE even if we all wear the same uniform?
What a pity then that in such times, instead of being selfless, you
choose to remain selfish.
I have already mentioned that I am a selfish person. All human
beings at one time or another are. Heck, I don't even know this
violin boy that well, so give me the reasons why I should do his
share of defense? Why don't you offer yourself to SAF to take up
his duties instead when the s.hit hit the fan.
Originally posted by BillyBong:
You already mentioned that no one will lose sleep if Ike serves at
a later date, so why express your insistence that he must serve NS
FIRST? Will the
Curtis Institute reserve his place for 2 years? Do you think every
tertiary institution in the world is run in the same manner as our
local Universities?
If curtis is unwilling to bend their school rules, why can't he
look for other schools? It is not the school that make the
musician, but the person himself. If he is really so good at
plucking violin strings, then all the more he should prove to the
world that no matter where ever he ended up in, he should be able
to shine. If he is unable to do that, doesn't that again question
his musical 'talents'? I never thought that every tertiary
institution in the world is run in the same manner as our local
Universities, you assume that I did.
Originally posted by BillyBong:
You should tone down your judgemental comments and instead reflect
on the possible opportunities of how best a balanced decision can
be made. Imagine Curtis Institue getting a "sorry, NS first"
response to their invitation
If that is really an institution of quality, then it should be
able to understand the reasons why violin boy have to serve first.
Unless most of their instructors are old men/women who are about to
kick the bucket in the next 2 years, then perhaps that might
explain their music teachings is more important than the national
defense of a country. 
What we (those who are against him deferring NS) are asking for is
just fairness. If he is allowed to defer for his violin plucking
lessons, so must others who wants to take up tertiary courses
before serving NS. What about people with a genuine family
problems, shouldn't they allow to defer NS as well. By this alone,
this will result in a whole lot of other problems and pray tell
what is the solution then. I am not saying there is no better
solution in the future, but currently the best one is to refuse
deferrment for everybody.