Think My Wife Is Having Affair

last SG · 2011-11-27T19:22:00+00:00

I am of the opinion there is no ’’solution’’ until self-honesty intuits and is communicated or expressed to each other in spite of the fears or ….Otherwise,...

Hooverviile SG

troublemaker2005 SG

You r a smart man, for me, in the begining, we already on the roller coaster.

you then really take all the postiogs and threads here seriously

silly girl

angel7030 SG

Play along mah, you dun embrass people just like this, it is not easy to come out with a well craft stories like this, at least, if seek opinons and comment mah.

Jlsky70 SG

my friend had given me contact number of a lawyer who handles divorce case. I have called him this morning and he asked me to call him again on Monday to fix an appointment.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

eh br, i wonder if it's okay for you to share with us how are you feeling now? many forumers here are very concerned about you. i believe most of us want you hear your thoughts about this and your action plan of moving on...

Jlsky70 SG

my feeling is a mixture of sadness, anger, disappointment, hatred, shame, humiliation..etc...I'm feeling very down and it really affects my life. My mood is foul and i got easily agiated. I yelled and my daughter for some small things that kids usually do....i felt bad for doing so...i don't like it...i want to control my feeling and actions, but it's easier said then done...

Yes, i'm moving towards divorce. It seems the best option. But i think we will be fighting for our daughter's custody.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

alright bro thx for sharing with us how you feel. I wanna let you know that whenever you feel low, you can come back to your thread and share with us your feelings. I understand it's gonna be a tough journey ahead, you're never gonna be alone.i can assure that. thou sgforums is a small place, people here are from all walks of life and may offer their personal experience and advice to you.

it's okay to feel this way, and i'm sure it's a temporary feeling.. you know you've yelled at your daughter due to your emotions.. i'm sure you know kids love candies. rmb to buy candies for her ya~ kids are very sensitive to the surrounding and is very intuitive in judging emotions. some candies /stuffed toy will help them feel better..

Jlsky70 SG

my daughter is my everything now. She is my moral suppport. She is my strength. Though she can be anoying sometimes and agitates me, but whenever she smiles or shows me her poor innocent face, my trouble would temporary disappear and joy seeps in. Too bad this temporary joy don't last...i would be sad again soon after...

Darkness_hacker99 SG

I hope you can win the custody of your precious daughter. seems like you're spending a lot more time with your daughter...

Jlsky70 SG

with my wife coming home late all the time, yes i spend much more time with my daughter.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

when the day comes, you will know

i don't know how to advice people well... but the idea is.. i wanna let you understand that instead of spending so much time thinking the negative, why not put it to good use and spend the time happy with your daughter.

you know, there are many attractions in singapore i suddenly remember zoo is having some painting events for kids and today 18 dec is the last day. why not bring your daughter out and have fun?

Jlsky70 SG

ya you're right. Why bother abt my wife when i can be happy spending time with my daughter. I went to the zoo with her 2 weeks ago. She loves the water playground.

JerryJan SG

I got a guy fren his wife always go party till very late

told me he leave her alone & got out with his own frens

they like to spend time in temple chanting

Jlsky70 SG

they like to go out separately?

go temple chanting?

porkyna SG

I can only commiserate with your predicament.

My prayers will be for your peace of mind and the well-being of your family.

Be strong.

JerryJan SG

they like to go out separately?

go temple chanting?

my fren with his group of guys fren

they like spend time in temple

AhgurL SG

I am a girl and i disapprove this kind of woman. Actually most girls hate this kind of woman.
The thing about the young manager, I bet a few months down the road he will be bedding another woman be it married or not and it will be going on and on.

So let be teach you to do things to make life hard for your unfaithful cheating wife and the fling dick third party pervert manager. Well, it can be kind of hard to stomach this.

1) install pin hole cams in your room, video tape or take photos of them bedding each other.

2)Voice record the confrontation with the third party with your wife with you. Make sure to make it that both of them are the super bad guys and you are the poor victim. Best is you got the video of the guy hit you. Or your wife say bitchy stuff.

3) Compile all the dirty secrets and print out the pictures and stand at their company door and give it to every employee in their company. (Those less explict one in case you got into trouble) To ruin both of their reputation and either both or the manager will get sack and will be the topic of talks in the company.

4) I bet you have your wife friends and family contact number. or email. Send them all those pictures and videos. (those less explict one in case you got into trouble)

5) Treat your daughter better and keep her happy and safe. And tell her a little of whats happen. Children will bound to detect what is going on so it is better to let her know the truth now slowly rather than suddenly. and if she know what is going on and obviously she will chose to go with you when it is time for the custody case. and courts will take the child prefrence into account.

6) Don't lose your cool when dealing with them and remember to take evidence without them knowing and also, keep your evidence safe and don't do illegal stuff. and remember that woman will be at it again even if cries and say she won't do it again. Got once means got twice.
Same goes to man too.

Gambatte! Fighting! Jia You!

mancha SG

TS no longer thinks his wife is having an affair.

He knows for sure.

angel7030 SG

my fren with his group of guys fren

they like spend time in temple

Temple of doom?

angel7030 SG

TS no longer thinks his wife is having an affair.

He knows for sure.

Ya, more of an internal affair now

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