I seems quite obvious and confirm that she is having an affair
with that guy. I have let go of my pride to ask her to go back with
me in front of him, but yet she turned me down and humiliated me in
front of him by going off with him in front of me.
she didn't come home last night. She only came back around noon
time today to spend some time with our daughter and left just a few
hours later. She is not back yet. I confronted her and demanded to
have a talk with her. But she refused to talk and chose to ignore
my questions, even after i raised my voice and showed my
unhappiness and anger.
I am very very sad. What has become of her. Why is she treating
me like this? She is the love of my life and she's hurting me so
badly.
Divorce is certainly on my mind, but deep down inside, i'm
thinking whether there is still hope in this marriage. I have too
many things on my mind now. Confused and not sure what to do
next.
You are like any foolish prideful male forumers here. Thinking a
few Gucci/LV bags and Jimmy Choo shoes or tours to exotic places
are all it takes to make your wife happy. No, women are more
complicated than that !
Think about this, if she is truly set on leaving you, she don't
need your permission to divorce you. She can go to the lawyer
office herself and seek a divorce on her own.
In fact, the sooner she seeks a divorce, the sooner she will be
released from it all. Why has she not done it yet ?
In her heart.. she has doubts. Because she know the next ship
she jumps onto, may turn out a sinking ship too.
To salvage this ship, you need to be a better man for her. If
she sees the change in you and see a future.. she will stay. We all
know.. the pasture is not always greener on the other side.
The only way it can be greener.. is when the current one is as
lousy as a pig sty.
Think about the issues she had been unhappy with in the past,
figure out how to resolve the problems, not sweep it under the
carpet.
Show genuine repentence.. there is still hope.
She is punishing you right now. Just stay calm. The more angry
and unhappy you are.. the more vengence she feels.
The whole marriage had been all about you.. it's time you let
her take the reign.
