Think My Wife Is Having Affair

last SG · 2011-11-27T19:22:00+00:00

I am of the opinion there is no ’’solution’’ until self-honesty intuits and is communicated or expressed to each other in spite of the fears or ….Otherwise,...

jojobeach SG

I began to wonder if you're a widow. Based on observation, you seems to be online during midnight. If you have a blissful family, you should be sleeping already. Of course you can choose not to say anything, but I hypothesize that your marriage with your husband is a broken one. :) right?

LOL.. it's day time here. The earth is not flat.

How old are you dude ? Ever own a smartphone ? You know accessing the internet is so easy, even on the roads.

My marriage is not perfect, we take the good with the bad. Neither of us are perfect. What's important is we are not afraid to admit our faults and do our best to be a better person.

My husband knows, that once a while he needs his ass kicked, but he knows I do it to make him a better man.

TS's wife is giving him a ass whoop now. If he can survive it, he'll become a better man.

A man always seek a more virtuous wife. But is the man virtuous enough for the woman ?

Be proud of your spouse. But self-pride is the poison to all relationship.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

jojobeach SG

I will fill in the details,she is in US.And got married because her playboy husband got her pregnant^^.

ooooo.... well.. look at that...pulling fibs out of your ass..

Is that all you can do ? How about some more intelligent stuff ?

Sure, attack me as much as you like, it just makes you look more puny than you already are.

[imdestinyz] SG

LOL.. it's day time here. The earth is not flat.

How old are you dude ? Ever own a smartphone ? You know accessing the internet is so easy, even on the roads.

My marriage is not perfect, we take the good with the bad. Neither of us are perfect. What's important is we are not afraid to admit our faults and do our best to be a better person.

My husband knows, that once a while he needs his ass kicked, but he knows I do it to make him a better man.

TS's wife is giving him a ass whoop now. If he can survive it, he'll become a better man.

A man always seek a more virtuous wife. But is the man virtuous enough for the woman ?

Be proud of your spouse. But self-pride is the poison to all relationship.

"A man always seek a more virtuous wife. But is the man virtuous enough for the woman"

A woman always seeks a good husband, is the woman good enough for the husband? Some things works 2 ways. No prior evidence to say that TS needs a ass whoop from his wife. You based your assumption on faults of the TS... why not consider the faults of the wife herself? 2 sides to a coin... if thing were that bad, why do a silent rebel on TS while when things were getting bad, TS tried to get into a talk with her.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

I can't be a doctor because I made misdiagnosis of menopause....

jojobeach SG

yea i totally agree with you. but the point is that while most of us are offering advices to TS and telling him what to act, some others are not. I do not see how this whole issue of TS equates to a total fault of TS as proclaim by the minority. And while us being 'prideful" guys are trying to help TS, I see some "prideful" species of the other sex trying to do otherwise. Neither do i see how in the issue of any r/s problem, the male has to play the bad role. Society has changed, members of the opposite sex can do the bad role also.

As i've said, lots of advice already given, TS just needs to act. But i guess for him, this is 1 big and hard step. Talking is all easier than doing it. I can feel the attachement he has for his wife but not all can.

Are you saying TS is faultless ?

That all had transpired has everything to do with how EVIL his wife is ?

No, there's always 3 sides to a coin. A coin is 3 dimensional.. if you havn't noticed.

There's TS's story, his wife's story.. then there's the truth.

[imdestinyz] SG

Are you saying TS is faultless ?

That all had transpired has everything to do with how EVIL his wife is ?

No, there's always 3 sides to a coin. A coin is 3 dimensional.. if you havn't noticed.

There's TS's story, his wife's story.. then there's the truth.

and if i did not recall wrongly, your version of truth for the whole issue = TS is guilty, and TS did not do his part in the marriage. A coin is 3 dimensional with 2 faces. A clap is made by 2 hands. And i merely said to consider the faults of his wife and u safely assumed that i felt that TS was faultless and everything was transpired and that his wife is totally evil. You are a goddess of assumptions.

jojobeach SG

For all you virgins, unmarried trolls. Do us a favor.. keep quiet and learn.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Are you saying TS is faultless ?

That all had transpired has everything to do with how EVIL his wife is ?

No, there's always 3 sides to a coin. A coin is 3 dimensional.. if you havn't noticed.

There's TS's story, his wife's story.. then there's the truth.

Just in case you have left out or you may not know. It is a 4 dimensional situation that is happening right now. Not only it involve a 3 dimensional object, it also involve the 4 dimension, which is the time, it takes for such occurance to take place.

Timespace is a very complicated subject which I do not wish to explain here in the forum.

If you haven't noticed yet, TS mentioned that it all start to happen around the beginning of this year which she went to a new company. Everything was great prior to that. That is the truth.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

For all you virgins, unmarried trolls. Do us a favor.. keep quiet and learn.

Learn how to control your hubby first.

jojobeach SG

Well, u guys assumed TS is faultless right ? I didn't.

Yes I agree, a wife should not act like that lah, in a normal, harmonious relationship. That's how they got pregnant wat... hello..

But his wife is an angry wife wat.. who is to say how she should behave ?

When agitated..

Some wifes throw knifes at their husbands

Some eat a whole big tub of ice creams

Some hit their husbands.

Some put poisons the food and fed him.

Some clobber their husbands when he sleeps.

Some...well.. you get the drift right ? OK Good.

TS wife is very kind to him alredy.. only emotional attack.. sup sup water lah..

[imdestinyz] SG

Learn how to control your hubby first.

wa.... very senior member angry liao!

Darkness_hacker99 SG

wa.... very senior member angry liao!

jojobeach SG

Yea!! That's what a real man should do!!

SG law doesn't honor pre-nup :)

Yawnzz...you and bio hawk the ignorant brutes.

Pre-nup is not 100% enforceable lah. Even in USA, lawyers are making tons of money writing up pre-nups.. but the over-writing factor is family law.

I shoulda just go be a prenup lawyer... make more money that way leh...

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Yawnzz...you and bio hawk the ignorant brutes.

Pre-nup is not 100% enforceable lah. Even in USA, lawyers are making tons of money writing up pre-nups.. but the over-writing factor is family law.

I shoulda just go be a prenup lawyer... make more money that way leh...

Yes! you see! we discover a great way of earning money~

jojobeach SG

"A man always seek a more virtuous wife. But is the man virtuous enough for the woman"

It's not like TS went window shopping one day and picked her up from a store in a pet shop, like a puppy dog.

He dated her for THREE years, before he married her leh. Can you please not ignore the details ? Haiz...

Read his postings can ? Things were great only until one year ago.

Something happened lah... you mean the wife suddenly wakes up and decides she wants to cheat on her husband ah ??? All of a sudden she decides she wants to be slutty ? LOL !!!

Please lah.... this is not those corny Mediacorp drama ok... this is real life lah...

Darkness_hacker99 SG

It's not like TS went window shopping one day and picked her up from a store in a pet shop, like a puppy dog.

He dated her for THREE years, before he married her leh. Can you please not ignore the details ? Haiz...

Read his postings can ? Things were great only until one year ago.

Something happened lah... you mean the wife suddenly wakes up and decides she wants to cheat on her husband ah ??? All of a sudden she decides she wants to be slutty ? LOL !!!

Please lah.... this is not those corny Mediacorp drama ok... this is real life lah...

She's a married woman and should know where to draw the line. If any ah mao ah gao come and woo her, do you thing any married woman will give in? Surely there is some communication issues between the couples.

Based on my observation, the new guy colleague is wooing her and coated her with tons of sugary promises. Eventually, she gave bought the guy's story. You know, if she really cherish the marriage, she should properly communicate with TS. If she did tried to communicate with TS about a year ago, then it's TS ommision of information.

There must be something wrong with TS's wife which led to this situation now. Maybe on one ocassion, the wife really did something wrong.... and she is currently being blackmailed by the guy who keep threatening her that she will expose the scandal?

Anyway, enough of the speculation, it will only add to TS's grief.

This is for you bro, take some time to read it.

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Susanteo2011 SG

wahhhh....................laaaannnnn...............

you fools still talking about this bullcrap of a thread ah ?

Medicated Oil SG

Lion City life is boring so 9 pm drama still draws millions of viewers.

As for the thread starter, he already know his wife character since the day one.

So, he have a better idea of what is going on since he is living with her.

No need to write to forum to seek ideas as all kind of funny ideas will arise.

He just have to decide to move on or carry on wearing the green cap.

Society is so open now that every one can be unfaithful regardless of sex.

Jiani SG

so ts got catch his wife cheating?

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