Laverne, for an obviously intelligent person, you asked a very
dumb question. There will be men who would never marry a divorced
person and, on that same whom-won't-I-marry continuum, there will
be others who would. Even in conservative singapore, you will be
surprised by the plurality of opinions. You may argue that, in
general, Singaporean men will be less keen than their european
counterparts in marrying a divorced woman. But talking in general
is useless when you are marrying just one, not a people.
How it will play out for you is also influenced by your own
eligibility. J Lo will have her fourth husband if she is so
inclined. So if you are young, pretty, rich, and intelligent, you'd
stand a good chance in meeting someone who will overlook/accept the
fact that you were married. Assuming he belongs to the group of
folks who prefer a spouse who were never married.
IMO, you don't have to let a potential mate know about your
previous marriage until he becomes so. You will have to make that
decision when that point in time is.
I completely agree.
TS just go for it, no point holding back, just take your
chances.
In fact AFB sounds like a smart guy. You can start with him.
Like what The Bear said, you don't have to hide your past. Just
let any potential partner know; you'll be able to seive out the bad
nuts and find someone with a big enough heart to share the rest of
your life with you.
I'm sure you don't wanna invest time and effort into someone who
would eventually reject you once he finds out that you're a
divorcee. Just ignore the narrow minded assholes.