Haha true. But the interview process and the qualifications you
have determine what type of job(s) you would hold.
Hopefully next time I won't land in a job that require too much
teamwork. Maybe 2 or 3 persons will do.
The backstabbing process is too much for me to handle.
I used to get stabbed by the back by a 'friend' in sec sch and
an ex-classmate during our last year in sec sch. Plus other group
of people. They were grouped together with a teacher. But then
again, our class is rowdy so the teacher group selectively together
with them and used me as a scapegoat because I'm always getting
bullied during my past years in sec sch. (I remember this teacher
first came into the class and then the first thing he do was to
"randomly" select people to come sit in the front)
It wasn't a random decision at all. It was pre-planned and I got
the bullseye.
The funny thing is that they used this good looking guy as a
bait to look at me like as if he is falling in love with me and he
would laugh at those trying to tell me that i'm wrong and so on and
so forth. In short, he was trying to do me in. The people who tell
me i'm wrong (saying that i'm always late, lazy, trying to tell me
not to do this, for example that retained sec 5 girl) will get
loads of crap from them.
In short, it was a really puzzling political play in the class
and many of those who wasn't involve in the group got jealous of me
because this good looking guy was 'falling in love' with me. They
would try to snatch the attention of the guy and I don't even care
actually because the other guy was always trying to bully me too
(probably in their own group too). The girls there thought that
this good looking guy was a good guy and their jealousy was really
lol-worthy as they tried to get near him and stalk him.
In the end, this girl who I believe is unaware of the group
political play 'forced' herself on him and tried to lure him away
from me.
I would say she indirectly helped me. And also, everytime I
shouted at the right person who is trying to do me good or smile at
one of their "team members" , they would smile at me like as if
they are happy that I failed.
She imitated his every move and well at the end of school year,
she even dyed her hair golden brown (similar to him) but in the
end, he already got a gf of his own.
But sometimes I don't understand why they would choose me as a
target since i'm so disinterested in school anyways. They could
advice me to drop it or something or maybe go to ITE? (which one of
my teacher had told me to, even though she's fierce, but she's a
pretty kind-hearted teacher which I know at the end of my school
years)
It was during O levels and yes I failed and got depressed and
stayed at home for 2 years.
Oh btw, I got my Higher Nitec in Accounting and i'm now
currently doing my CAT/ACCA.
I am still thinking of whether to apply for poly.
Aiya, failure is part of life mah, fail is actually the begining of
success, there are lots of ITE peoples I met are bosses, my drinks
supplier, my renovator, our contractor maintenance, etc etc are all
ITE or O level only, but all are towkays.
1. favoritism: sometime, it is not the qualification that get
you to somewhere, if the boss favour you (especially those in
private co), you can also become a director or CEO, work
shake legs and people have to look upon you, if not,
even master degree also work as head or manager only.
2. Neopotism: same group of people or relatives who tends to
work and flavour only their own peoples (can be dialect group or
races), tho singapore is already a developed country, it is sad to
say that nepotism still very much cultured in our working life.
