Ts,
Patient with loneliness? patience with what one is being, what
one is and of course, it presupposes one is accepting of oneself -
warts n all. Loneliness is symptomatic of one unloving oneself and
rejecting of what one is or does. Alos, the unconcious comparing,
the unconscious conceptual ideas/models of eg what love is, of what
success is ..... etc. Beliefs fetter and it is nigh impossible to
jettison them. The wise would have beliefs but gravitate towards
that beleifs that free
them, unlimits them as human beings.
The undoing is cos many erroneously assume that other-esteem is
self-esteem. It is not, when the other/thing that made or caused
one to feel ''good''/ ???"" collpases or disappears/ends
where is the esteem. Self-esteem means that which one
creates out of oneself from within - in this way,
whether one is accepted/approved/validated by others/things becomes
less important cos one is fulfilled in oneself; that which comes as
approval, assent, validation is a bonus!
PS - Theraphy works but sadly it is imposing that which society
deems as normal. it is simply helping one to fit in. Beneath
that, one is the same and that needs to be accepted or acknowledged
cos no one is the same - all of us are unique. As long as that is
unrecognised it is going to remain latent and
situational/societal/neurotical anxiety are likely to be the
mainstay and would inexorably surface in ...
