sort of.
Seems like she does not know what she wants in the
relationship.
She can say break up, then when i turn and walked away, she can
hold me back by my arm.
Like last night also. We were having a very big quarrel and she
asked me to go home. I stood up, turned and she held me by the
arm to hold me back.
Ultimatums should not be used so frivolously.
You need to make it very clear to her that the next time she
issues another ultimatum again, she better mean what she
says.Because you will no longer turn back. And make sure you stick
by it.
This is YOUR ultimatum to her.
Some girls uses ultimatum to test their boyfriends. If they turn
back.. it means they still have feelings for her. Unfotunately,
this is a destructive behavior for any relationship.
While a relationship, no matter how strong the bond, is
still very fragile when fought within.
Your girlfriend is extremely insecure. You will be constantly
trying to "prove" your love.. but sadly.. you will find that no
matter what you do.. it'll never be enough.
Some people will go through great lengths to make a relationship
work.
