A sexless marriage

last SG · 2010-05-19T16:03:17+00:00

Sex is part of marriage -> when come to this kind of topic that will greatly affect the self-interest and benefits of guys, I will see many guys becoming...

jojobeach SG

I refrain from giving advice because only women who have a genuine fear of sex can answer his question. All human beings, regardless of male or female, emotional make-up etc, enjoy sex. Why his wife rejects it? Only those who have been through it can answer. Of course a sexual guru in the form of a specialised psychiatrist can help here.

It's not as simple as you think, give her more care and love bla bla bla. Nah bei, this kind of shit advice also dare to give.

And not just men want great sex after a wedding, women want it too. Women love a lot of sex with the men they love.

Wah.. you really want to nick pick hor ? Try reading the post from the BEGINNING can ? And try to comprehend the contents of this thread with your brain UP there not down there.

I'm telling him stop being a selfish jerk.. you say I only tell him to give love ??? Wow.. dude.. are you on drugs ?

Women want a lot of sex true we want to enjoy sex too .. but they don't want to have to ABORT a baby.. understand this SIMPLE part..can ?

TTFU SG

I think Ts loves hisr wife a lot. No idea what happen at the abortion thing, but seems like everything got stuck there, talk to the counsellor first, no point posting here anymore. Listen to what that person has to say.

Rock^Star SG

Wah.. you really want to nick pick hor ? Try reading the post from the BEGINNING can ? And try to comprehend the contents of this thread with your brain UP there not down there.

I'm telling him stop being a selfish jerk.. you say I only tell him to give love ??? Wow.. dude.. are you on drugs ?

Women want a lot of sex true we want to enjoy sex too .. but they don't want to have to ABORT a baby.. understand this SIMPLE part..can ?

He said he's not ready for a baby. So how? The baby can strain or even kill the marriage if both parties do not agree on one beforehand.

~PEPPER~ SG

Best way out.

Prophecy_Master SG

Going through an abortion is a very traumatizing experience. No matter how early the abortion is. That might have scarred her physiologically, thus sex = pain and the recap of the abortion. I don’t think she can be stimulated in that state. So you know….can’t force it in. maybe I mean maybe, try something else rather than sex ?

troublemaker2005 SG

must be the guy everytime want sex sex sex sex morning sex at nite sex at work also sex. if not he wrote the wife intelligent not mountain turtle type she will not know how to take precaution meh? she will not insist the guy put conlum meh? must be the guy want to be a man wasay more shiok don;t put conlum. then tio toto 4d pregnent go abort when some one of the two don;t want to have baby. blame pappy gahmen lah when this type of problem directly cause low sg birth rate. the girl horny also fear to have sex with TS lar. latter abortion again. you think aborption like masturbation or ejeculation so simple so shiok so easy arh. the prblem from ts is clear as a book to read. and i sense TS has a part to be bllamed. only he photoshopped his side of the story, or he reaally ignorant about it. 27yrs odl do not mean you really mature ebough to get married start a family, or even have sexual relationships responsibly.

jojobeach SG

He said he's not ready for a baby. So how? The baby can strain or even kill the marriage if both parties do not agree on one beforehand.

Do you need a pair of reading glass to read what I has posted ?

They want to fark without getting pregnant while not using any contraceptive. Yet want a baby later in life.

Keep the sperm in a cryogenic lab. Get a vasectomy.

Then when ready to have baby.. go for artificial insemination with his sperm defrosted. Implant the fertilized egg into wife's womb.

Understand ? Or too cheem for you ah ?

TehJarVu SG

u both have identified that vaginismus could be the reason, then treat it
it is the easiest sexual condition to be treated
some more she was pregnant before so there was obviously penetrated sex before

erm... foreplay foreplay... relax relax...

talk to psychiatrist/gynae/doctor

sg_cabby SG

Wow someone is stalking me all the way from whinehouse. SO butt hurt from ytd night ? Really dying to seek attention from me right ? Please lah dont stain aunty agony, go back to whinehouse. I lazy to reply you here. Want seek attention go post in chit chat.

boyboy scared ar just say u scared liao then uncle sayang u then walk off lor. dun be 'tramatise' leh. 'beliefs' uncle. uncle is nice and friendly one. uncle children already in uni le. maybe ur father dunno how to teach u so u cannot even go uni

follow uncle surname call uncle father then uncle teach u la want or nt but uncle dun mind 1 more son. dun bring mummy along ar. polygamy not allowed

dangerboi SG

see a psychologist and a sexologist. You could see just 1 person if that particular person has the relevant qualifications.

Time waits for no man.

~PEPPER~ SG

see a psychologist and a sexologist. You could see just 1 person if that particular person has the relevant qualifications.

Time waits for no man.

sexologist specialises in?

Rooney9 SG

TS as mentioned, bring your wife to go seek specialist here. I think the specialist is urologist.

littlemissbonkers SG

follow uncle surname call uncle father then uncle teach u la want or nt but uncle dun mind 1 more son. dun bring mummy along ar. polygamy not allowed

OMG

LOL

Uncle vs 2 Xdds!

Hahahahhaha

@TS

Since you have already decided to see a specialist about your wife's problem, then why don't you go for the appointment first and see how it works out?

By the way, the previous posters all have their points. You may have been neglecting your wife's emotional needs. So take note of that and try not to stress her anymore. Sex involves both parties, so you have to share some of the burden/fault/responsibility too. Concentrate on the problem at hand and quit getting upset and blaming your wife.

Rooney9 SG

I noticed your posts in AA tend to be a lot of unsolicited bullshit :) Most times you talk like you understand a lot but fact is, your understanding of the situation most times is just your oestrogen taking itself on a shameless ego trip.

yes she talks nonsense, I concurred. she goes on and on and on.......and have no clue what she is letting on. Just ignore her and her big time charlie antics. whenever I see her post, I skipped. cant stand this type of bimbo.

Dominque SG

Erm.. I dont think your talks with her kinda work.. when u get down to talk u need to forgo some ego n wateva.. she doesn seem to express what she feels deep in.. yea i believe sex in part of marriage n r/s , petting n cuddling will lead to it one, every1 shud enjoy..

Anw.. i read some article sometime ago, a women n her teacher husband cant have sex cos she feels pain whenever it happens, in the end after giving birth, she is very comfortable with having sex n no pain anymore.. i know u might not be in the financial condition, but if u plan a little there might be compromisition in terms of finance..

Also.. if u get a not turned on girl, or quite innocent girl a dildo n try to lick her private areas.. its like giving a primary 1/2 sch boy a bj.. remember u primary sch boy time when hormones not so active, these kinda stuff u might even feel disgusting.. fetishes like these (dildoing, oral) doesn seem attractive but disgusting at a low hormonal level, it just starts to come after u become more experienced n that will translate into excitement at this point of time.. start her by softcore sex ba.. n i think she needs more foreplay..

jojobeach SG

TS as mentioned, bring your wife to go seek specialist here. I think the specialist is urologist.

UROLOGIST ?? Bwahahahahhaha !!!!

Virgin boy.. you think females pee with their vagina ?????????

Yah right.. ask wife go see specialist.. it's ALWAYS the WIFE's FAULT .. RIGHT ? Moron.

~PEPPER~ SG

UROLOGIST ?? Bwahahahahhaha !!!!

Virgin boy.. you think females pee with their vagina ?????????

Yah right.. ask wife go see specialist.. it's ALWAYS the WIFE's FAULT .. RIGHT ? Moron.

Urologists i think connected with fu chang ke.

TTFU SG

How do girls pee, out from their mouth of course. lol..

jojobeach SG

How do girls pee, out from their mouth of course. lol..

Really ? Is that how your mother does it.. wow.. that I gotta see !

LOL.. please ok guys..remember.. when you insult someone else's daughter.. you are also insulting your mother. OK ? Good.

TTFU SG

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