Actually not only I post this topic to seek advice but also sort
of let my chest out...
Regarding your question: I don't agree with parnie. Becoz if i
go by parn's advice, not only I allow my own life to be messed up
and also i will further set a wrong view to my family that their
doings are acceptable.
Anyway, like what you said i will work out a plan myself. What
is useful to me i will heed. Thanks again. Obviously when i post
this, i am also kinda seeking for some support. Thanks for your
support.
Hey girl.. parnie is probably another big sister who bullies her
own younger siblings.
Family is for loving and sharing.. not for bullying and to take
advantage of.
There is nothing wrong with you helping out your sis and mother.
You do it because you wanted to share your time and efforts and
love with them.
But there should be gratitude, not insults and endless
expectations and demands from them.
Family will always be family no doubt.. when in need, you don't
demand, you can only hope they will be there to help you too.
When they do, you are grateful. Not think that it's your god
given rights.
Family don't bully family. That's a very simple, universal rule
of thumb. When they do, they are no longer family in your
heart.
