I dunno if I can use the word hate, but I cannot stand the sight
and sound of my mom. she is in her early 70s, stubborn, talks loud
and is not a hygienic person. she embarrased me when I was young
and she could not keep secrets. I have learned my lesson, not to
tell her anything, less my relatives and her friends know about
it.
when she cooks, the kitchen is a mess after that. you can see
rice, meat and dunno what shit on the floor. the sink is also
likewise, with rice, vege or some meat lying around.
I dun like to talk to her, cos she talked loudly (as if
quarrelling), nag and nag at dunno what shit. she go complain to
relatives that I am not telling her anything and my relatives came
to ask me, how come your mom does not know what you are doing. why
should I, after what I was embarrased as a child. she once said, I
want to know what you are thinking and I was like wtf. what
arrogance and thinking was that. you do not tell me anything about
yourself, except for the old grandmother stories.
I have no feelings for her no more cos I have had it, from teens
to adulthood. when she come home, I go back to my bedroom and turn
on the tv volume loud. why I buy a tv in my room so that I dun have
to see her in the living room anymore.
Dude, you didn't mention anything about your father. Where is he
?
Is your mom a single mom ?
Your mother is in her 70s, when was the last time you sent her
for a physical/mental checkup ? Do you know at this age..
they are prone to old age disease and mental illness ?
And do you know what is her health condition so far ? Perhaps
her ears are not working well that's why she talks loud. Perhaps
she is emotionaly very lonely that's why she wants to be part of
your life. Perhaps she has low self-esteem and that's why she
gossips to the relatives. Have you considered all these ? She has
needs too, bro.
Are you the only son ?
You complain you don't have a good relationship with your
mother, but let me ask you this.. have you been taking care of her
? If you have not , then why are you envious about other people's
mother ?
Sure, you don't like some of her out landish behavior, but have
you talked to her politely about it before ? You are in your 30s,
it's time you grow up.
Do you expect your mother to give you love, when you have
withheld your love from her ? Ain't work that way bro.
Bro, your mom is already 70s she don't have much time already.
Think about it , ya ?