one-sided love

last SG · 2008-03-08T20:25:39+00:00

the reason why i wanna tell her that i loved her once,because there is a barrier between us now.let me explain the barrier:Before secondary 4, she always con...

nana78 SG

Should I relate my own experience?

Being accidentally in love with my best friend and realizing it abit too late.

We have had a grey-zone relationship of some years. It was not an obvious and clear-cut relationship which leads to a heap of problems and emotional frustration thereafter. It didn’t occur to me that she has feeling for me all this years and I, too have feeling for her. In my mind, I always see her as a friend but at the back of mind, I’m really, slowly falling in love with her. This scenario kind of reminds me of the agonizing story that I read in AA about guys slowly falling in love with their best friend but our fate is different. However, our destiny is meant to be different.

motoway SG

nana straight or otherwise?

UnidentifiedX SG

so nana got get together? Got take any actions? What happened in the end?

j_dsowner SG

wow nana78's story.. how i wish i am like her?.. to find that actually me and that girl have feelings before.. cos i last time previously felt as though she reali deep down kinda like me but tinks that she treat me as a best friend.. cos sometimes i do feel that way thru her actions.

and yeah i'm interested to know what happens after that, care to share with us?

Lorry` SG

nana straight or otherwise?

hmm isnt it obvious.

j_dsowner SG

hey guys..

her birthday is apparently coming up.. and she's gonna hold a bbq over at her place to celebrate it..

any ideas to how to surprise her on that day?

CannyOng SG

hey guys..

her birthday is apparently coming up.. and she's gonna hold a bbq over at her place to celebrate it..

any ideas to how to surprise her on that day?

Get a huge happy birthday balloon, at least half human size. The best with her name on it. :D

j_dsowner SG

haha but we arrive with the balloon? i was intending to hide something until the bbq nite.. den night time den surprise her.. i can get the help of her parents cos i know them and her other grp of friends.. any more ideas?

rain-coat SG

go there super early and hide it in the room. or get someone to deliver it at night lor...

UnidentifiedX SG

Get a very big box and put a super big nice bear inside?

Zarks SG

put a bomb in the cake.. Razz

j_dsowner SG

me n my friend thought of wearing shirts which bear happy birthday words.. seems nice n touching eh! can't wait for the birthday surprise lol.

UnidentifiedX SG

lol. good one there. u guys go to orchard den walk in a grp together la.

j_dsowner SG

haha cannot. cos we celebrating at her place.. but then i got try to ask her out personally on her actual bdae not.. cos the celebration is on a wkend. not her actual bdae. yep.. but she haven't agreed on going out with me yet..

j_dsowner SG

anyway i sorta blew cold air to her again.

after my work, i msg her wads she's doing n stuffs. and then she mentioned that she's outside [ means she's with her bf ]

den i simply replied, " kk sry. "

i don't know? but i just feel that it's wad i wanna reply. i just wanna make her feel that i'm not happy with who she is with. and i just wanna let her know that i'm jealous and stuffs like that.........