alvin-ncs SG hope so ba... as now i am thinking what i am going through is nth... dont feel like doing them also... got the "dont give a damn" feeling now...
alvin-ncs SG feel like talking to them... but i will find myself being a border to them... so i never talk... now i am keeping everything to myself...
Isis SG ehh btw i think both of us need to sort out our own feelings. It is not really about them now, it is about working, letting go and moving on with ourselves. Anyway "my don't give a darn" isn't the sad or angry kind but more of a neutral kind.. letting go kind, going with the flow kind.. Hope u find ur way soon!
<Precious> SG I know exactly how you feel coz I've been through dat and survived...... From your description, you seem confused, not knowing which way to turn. I would isolate each of the knots in your heart and tackle each one at a time for a start. You might want to take a step back as well so that you may be able to get a clearer perspective. Dun rush for a solution coz sometimes time is all that you really need and the problem solves on its own....! Rather than make an immediate decision, I would advise you to just shelve them for the moment while you try to live your life as best as you can. Get your life in order and once you are pretty happy with the way you are living your life, then come back to your problems to determine what fits into the life which you are happy with. Cast whatever doesn't fit away so that what remains are those that will only fit into your life and enhance it! Hanmg in there and bide your time! Good luck!
alvin-ncs SG i dont really know... maybe about relationship... maybe about family... maybe about myself... i dont know too la...
Isis SG abit jaded.. but okay lah. I already know where i want to go. It actualy naturally attuned but just that i never give it time and chance to develop.
<Precious> SG You feel sick because you are viewing all your different problems all at the same time and you can't see straight with your mind all tied up in knots. Isolate your problems and view each one at a time. You'll be able to see things more clearly..... Never a good idea to try to solve problems when your inner self is not in order. It's like a building without proper foundation. Start the analysis from the root of your problems - your inner conflicts. Get yourself sorted out first. Once you untie the knots in your inner mind and heart, then proceed with your problems one at a time. This way you'll feel less pressurised and your inner peace can provide you with directions more clearly....... Good luck!
Isis SG hello, i understand where u r coming from. U have to tell urself to get out of the rut.. U can CHOOSE to stay in there rut or walk out of it.. can u see it? I took some time and suffering to re-discover what i am and what i like. The truth is we are constantly changing. Situation is constantly changing. Ask yourself this "what it is that u really have passion for?" Then be pro-active, take up some courses or CCA to test water and to nuture urself. It takes effort and time to re-discover what u want. Discovering yourself can be fun sometime.
Isis SG Well, mmmm be patience with yourself. Have some tender loving care for yourself cos..... u r a human being. u need some time to adjust and to move on.. ehhh i wana ask.. do u want to live the rest of your life like this? If not, then better start moving lah. You shouldn't be just trying. You should be doing it. Slowly, bit by bit.. stepping out and find ur niche... it takes time but most importantly be patience with yourself and don't give up on yourself. Everyone around us can give up on us but not yourself. Have some faith in urself. I have some faith in u. Btw stop telling urself that u can't do it. You must tell urself that u can do it de. Encourage urself by giving positive self-talk that u actually deserve...
