because no girls would like a self centred, narrow minded,
whiney guy who thinks the world owes him something simply because
he doesn't get what he wants.
wake up your idea and look around you and perhaps if you spend your
time better getting a more fulfilling life, and using all that free
time you have to do something meaningful - you WILL become
attractive to people simply because its not just yourself that you
think of.
You say it is because of rejections that make you the way you are
today. please la, who havent got rejected before? who havent had
the experience of unsuccessful relationships, of broken hearts, of
disappointment after led down the garden path? All these are not
exclusive to YOU.
But not everyone take every failure and become bitter and angry
with the rest of the world about it. Life doesn't work out the way
we want most of the time, and a man who shows he can handle his
disappointments well despite all of it and still retain a sense of
humour - IS attractive.
A person who ends up being whiney and self absorbed and think the
whole world is against him - well think again, the whole world does
not think you are important enough to attack you this way. It goes
the way it wants to and if we want to survive, we move along, heal
ourselves and move on.
Evolution prefers the survivor - not looks, not success, not money
- but someone who shows he has the character mettle to
survive.
