I just broke up with my gf today :(

last SG · 2006-12-04T00:04:59+00:00

nothing wrong with meeting just once or twice a week wat...i m currently doing dat meet too many times in a week will also get bored wif each other rite?...

universe SG

a relationship can be v draggy if both of u did not communicate well..

maybe both of you are not compatible in her sorts of ways..

Yunhaier SG

Shocked

How come got my name one~

/me slipped doko a cheque under the table. Laughing Twisted Evil

Cheers

dokono SG

*rejects because Im paid peanuts*

doko

iceFatboy SG

being in a r/s, you do need to lean on each others sometimes.
you can't be strong all the time and there will be times where you want your other half to be there.

so I guess for the thread_starter, perhaps you were not by your GF side when she needs you most and thus felt neglected.

I do know that the chase is more exciting but believe me, until the day you both RIP, do treat your gf, wife still as a chase...

I bet for those in R/s will know the joy when you bother to do something & rewarded by the happiness you see in your other half's face..

lastly, do rem, if you want to do something, don't think about rewards/benefits..

social87 SG

hmmm.so how old is ur gf dude?hope u dun mind that im asking that.

ReinaTanaka SG

always think before you do something.

closing the door infront of someone like very rude.

ironoxideman SG

its true tht u didnt actually do anything wrong but i guess u shld take the initiative more, in the future.
if you give ur partner the impression that u are aloof,not a good thing wad.
and about the befriending of females and keeping other women's pics...remember,some girls get jealous easily.

TeamSG.TruE SG

Im 100% sure she is scorpio

Saint` SG

u r nt sensitive enough?? lol .. if u r too sensitive .. i bet she will say u r nt giving her enough freedom .. being too sticky to her n such .. it is sad in a way that such things happen .. no one is in wrong .. i think ur gal probably is some1 more dependant .. while u r more independant .. prehaps u shld try to find things out from her instead of waitin her to tell u .. tat might give her a feeling tat u care n concern .. if nt she jus think tat u bo chap .. if u still hav feelings for her y nt give the rls another chance then

alfagal SG

haha same here,
v curious on how old u guys are.

yes, i agree w doko and yun's views...
they give quite good advices.

pierre^^ SG

u can start the ball rolling =)

doko

-Recon- SG

u also quite loser rite... cant recognise ur own gf's voice!! Laughing

littlefishtan! SG

Here are yr flaws

- Meet once or twice a week-> maybe should start increasing what. LIke morning go work or school and things like that then meet in the evening for dinner and things like that

- Mostly, she calls (she's not happy that I didnt call much)-> Since u know she likes talking to u then u should talk more to her. Take initiative to call. Haha. Same as my stead too. everytime is i call him one. Maybe its both of yr fault. She should be more understanding that u need space and u should be more understanding to her needs too.

- When she's troubled, she's unhappy that I didnt notice and didnt console her-> This one is also both yr fault. Her fault because she EXPECT U TO KNOW and never tell u. BUt its also yr fault because u not caring enough and nver put in an effort to understand her body language better.

- She once impersonated a third person gal and pretended to befriend me. She's upset that I agreed to meet up and be friends with that "girl"-> thats too extreme! Shes over doing it

- I keep a few pictures of female models-> Lusting after some other woman's body when you are attached is a no no.

- I wrote in an internet forum about how the r/s was giving me stress at a period of time. (she found out and was not happy)-> As long as u didnt include her name it should be OKAY.After all, we all need a little space to vent our frustrations

I think u should write a letter to her and analyse everything that went wrong in the relationship. Apologize for yr mistakes but request that she should make an effort to change for it takes two hands to clap. Send a gift to apologize liek flowers or collect a lot of saga seeds to put in a bottle or sth. If she doesnt want to patch back.. then... I think u should move on.

littlefishtan! SG

I can help u draft a letter. PM me if u want! =)
Im good at writing stuff tah can trigger emotions! I was the only A1 in the level for english and i also wrote letters to teachers to get out of punishments and things like that! I could offer my services. Or maybe u can type out one then u send to me and i add in stuff here and there.I WILL BE HAPPY TO HELP! Really!

Gazelle SG

My advice : - Observe how her dad treat her mum, if you dont like his style his look and the way he talk, forget about it, move on.

Yunhaier SG

/me throw peanuts at doko. Twisted Evil

Cheers

dokono SG

That's a lot of cash Laughing Mr. Green
*happily accepts those tons of peanuts*

doko

MingFreeman SG

Lots of good advice.......once again, thank you to all. All the replies are very sensible.

We are both in our early 20s and the age gap is 1 year, so age shouldnt be a problem ba. Its my first r/s.

I think i'll get an apology card and write a letter to admit my mistakes and to ask for a patch. Also, to tell her what areas she can work on also.

Then.....just hope for the best. if not, then we'll just have to go our seperate ways.
Neutral

MingFreeman SG

Her parents seem quite friendly. There seems to be no major disharmony within the family

stevenliew SG

take it easy Sad Sad

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